I'm 20 years old and after a very bad break up with a three year relationship i thought that i was done with guys.
then on my birthday i met this guy who completely swept me off my feet and 3 days after meeting him, we started dating. another mistake, we slept together in the first week...
i'm not a bad person...
Hahahahha. Yeah right.
You are experiencing the many layers of relationships. For this guy you slept with in the first week, you are past the infatuation stage and have migrated into the reality stage where you truly see what your partner is made of. Without proper communication or effort, most couples stop here and end up breaking up. You however are trying the infatuation part with this other guy, but even though you say you're not a bad person, I think you're being a bit shallow. I can imagine a scenario in which you dump the guy you're with right now, hook up with this other guy, it goes badly, and you're once again cold and alone, having broken the hearts of two men.
It's called youth. You're not a bad person. Ask your current boyfriend to be a MAN and give you more brain-boggling sex or else you'll dump him. You have all the right to ask so. If anything, that will make you AND HIM feel better (believe me, if you say you're gonna dump him otherwise, he'll do everything to give you crazy good sex). Sometimes simply being nice is not enough, so if he cannot do that, he's simply not man enough. Instincts and evolution has made it so you look for better apt potential mates. Powerful sex can prove the mate is indeed physically healthy and strong. That's all that's going on with you. Do what you need to do and let life run its course.
>>6 it seems to me you are implying those who aren't a fucking machine are evolutionary degeneration, and it is best for them to be left out of the gene pool. And those that are, you, like how many times you been going around on this board to fluant that to us, gives us the impression you are worthy of living than those who aren't or those who don't have relationships.
The best place to find advice is in the bible
>>7 I address Benson casually because he follows advice in good disposition. In no way was it meant as an attack nor do I find it pleasing to my ego.
I am sorry if I seemed to put down people that are not "fucking machines" as you put it, but rather the actual objective of the post was to ward off people with unhelpful posts (2-5).
>>5 is benson??
Okay, I just wish that he would 'talk' like that more. His thread seriously gives the impression of a childish, ditzy boy.
Okay, i can understand that people all have different opinions and that i do sound like a lying cheating whore..
i'm going through a really bad dip in my life right now.
Now this makes ev-rything different. You are right in when you say you could be "jumping into bed with a guy so easily". In this case, giving a break to sex would be the best approach, considering also that you've gone through the strong experience of testifying against your raper. Take time to enjoy dates with either one, but abstain from sex. This will give you a clearer view of what you want from your relationships, and take focus away from sex. Sorry I can't expand any more in my advice, but I've got to get back to work. :P God bless.
What the hell is your problem.. At least i can admit that i have a problem and seek help. you gives you the right to critisise people and actions when you don't know them. at least i've learnt in my life to never judge,its filthy, obnoxious and a pure immature person's way out of everything.
I never understood that. How can you live without exercising judgment?
Silly girl and everyone in general. Please take this Mireille guy's advice lightly. This Mireille guy wish he was a professional, but his not.
Silly girl, my best advice is to seek professional help, psychologists, counsellors, shrinks, etc.
>>17 Silly girl and everyone in general. Please take this Mireille guy's advice lightly. This Mireille guy wish he was a professional, but his not.
thank you secret admirer. I see you too have a heart..
I'm sorry for atacking you. Haven't been having such a good week....
I wish you all a good day...
oh i wanted to add that i had a very honest chat with my boyfriend yesterday. I told him how i was feeling and that it was unfair of me to hurt him the way i was. i took the blame for all the problems in our relationship. we ended it off, but on okay terms. there is no hateful feelings involved. he understands that we are both just human and can't control our feelings.
Make sure to use a condom when fucking around with strangers. If you have to be a slut, be a clean slut.
No offense he probably really hates you.