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1 Name: Secret Admirer : 2006-10-01 17:34 ID:saJuJeP8

i want a japanese boyfriend. someone like nishijima hidetoshi.
but i'm not in japan. nor will i visit it anytime soon.
where to get one?

2 Name: Ron "The Truth" Killings : 2006-10-01 17:49 ID:YYlVOWRd

Why don't you stop trying to find someone based off their race and open your eyes to the people around you? How about that?

3 Name: Secret Admirer : 2006-10-01 18:09 ID:saJuJeP8

everyone has their own preference so why slam me for that?

4 Name: Secret Admirer : 2006-10-01 18:18 ID:Heaven

Fix your shift key. Then we'll talk.

5 Name: Secret Admirer : 2006-10-01 18:18 ID:Xj52gqzG

Maybe you can start by making Japanese friends either in real life or online. I've made some good friends this way and it also helps that I'm trying to learn their language.

6 Name: Secret Admirer : 2006-10-01 18:27 ID:lQ17mA7k

who cares...


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7 Name: Ron "The Truth" Killings : 2006-10-01 19:45 ID:nb4j4uRE

SHIT! Go to a fucking Chop Suey. Why don't you give the guys around you a chance? You never know what you might find, but nah you want a hot girly asian guy. How would you feel if you got kickin to that damn curb by a guy you liked but you found out he wasn't into whatever race you are? That would be FUCKED UP, wouldn't it?

8 Name: Secret Admirer : 2006-10-01 21:08 ID:/3F0jtCU

It sounds almost like youre jealous... Its just a god damned preference, you cant be attracted to everything, you probably have youre own preferences aswell?

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9 Name: Secret Admirer : 2006-10-01 21:10 ID:/3F0jtCU


there are lots of different sites that offer penpal services and whatnot, and youve also got a fistfull of online communities on the webs aswell :3

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10 Name: Ron "The Truth" Killings : 2006-10-01 21:26 ID:nb4j4uRE

If jealous is what it is, then I'm the most jealous person out there and I DON'T GIVE A FUCK. I know from experience of how fucked up it is when you are getting good with a girl and she tosses you aside for someone who is the exact fucking same as you except they are asian. It's the most fucked up thing I have ever experienced but just fuck it, live your life and do whatever the saint hell you want. I just hope one day you get fucking tossed aside because of your race so you can see how it feels. SHIT!

11 Name: Secret Admirer : 2006-10-01 21:50 ID:/3F0jtCU

So the asian guy was better than you, you cant win at everything in life either, instead of letting things get to you like that, you should learn to live with it instead

12 Name: Ron "The Truth" Killings : 2006-10-01 21:54 ID:nb4j4uRE

better than me? LOL. hell no. but everything else you said, you right, you right. there are other girls out there. it just frustrating.

13 Name: Secret Admirer : 2006-10-01 21:57 ID:+wZi2NLp

Yaknow i used to think i'd only ever go out with a Japanese chick then i started work and met some truely wonderfull people. i didnt give a shit about race anymore, i only care about personality.

14 Name: Secret Admirer : 2006-10-01 22:06 ID:/3F0jtCU

More like... better for her, ye? :3


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15 Name: Secret Admirer : 2006-10-02 02:21 ID:Heaven

>>10 Someone's bitter...

16 Name: Secret Admirer : 2006-10-02 02:22 ID:Heaven

>>14 Yup, better for her.

17 Name: Secret Admirer : 2006-10-02 03:30 ID:yspliYBN

Much thanks for those who've helped. :)
Time for me to explore the links and take one step closer
to snagging my guy. lol >.<

18 Name: Secret Admirer : 2006-10-02 04:11 ID:pdk8d8iA

I want juice.
but it gotta be apple?

19 Name: Secret Admirer : 2006-10-02 05:56 ID:2ELDmKsG

You are really shallow.
No mature person goes out and says, "aight, i'm gonna get me a jap boyfriend today lol!". It might be your how you prefer cola over pepsi. But listen to yourself, "where to get one?" Wtf? Like as if they stock them in walmart?? HOW DEGRADING.
Even though Ron is a troll, he's got the right side of the spoon this time.

20 Name: Secret Admirer : 2006-10-02 06:01 ID:Heaven

When I woke up tonight I said I'm gonna make somebody love me.
I'm gonna make somebody love me.
Ans now I know, yes I know, yes I know it's gonna be you!
You're lucky, lucky, you're so lucky!

21 Name: Secret Admirer : 2006-10-02 08:44 ID:/3F0jtCU

I can agree to the fact that she might be approaching this the wrong way, but this thread isnt about trolling if its ok or not..
But for all we know, she wont go for the first japanese guys she meets, she might want to actually befriend some japanese people aswell, and I cant say that I see the harm in helping her alittle bit.

22 Name: Secret Admirer : 2006-10-02 09:17 ID:Heaven

What does this "nishijima hidetoshi" guy have that I don't? :(
(according to a google search he's 35... so I guess age is one thing.)

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23 Name: Secret Admirer : 2006-10-02 09:36 ID:2uv9T4x1

I wish you the worst in everything you do.

24 Name: Secret Admirer : 2006-10-02 09:47 ID:yspliYBN


Thank you!

25 Name: Secret Admirer : 2006-10-02 09:57 ID:yspliYBN

I'm sorry if you're bothered by my 'shallowness'.
But thing is, what's so shallow bout knowing what I want and going for it.
It's not that I dislike guys the same race as me, it's simply that I find japanese guys more attractive.

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26 Name: Secret Admirer : 2006-10-02 13:16 ID:2ELDmKsG

you say that, yet you've never been to japan.
if a guy was to post something like that, he'd get so much shit for it. what's shallow is that you want appearance, not nature. you can't try and make it sound any better. comeon, "i like you just because you happen to be the right race"?? wow, i feel sorry for him already.

27 Name: Secret Admirer : 2006-10-02 13:27 ID:Heaven

When I was younger and more of a Western "watashi wa kawaii baka" otaku, there was a time when I had three Japanese pen-pals at once. All female, of course. I probably still have their email addressed somewhere, but it's been about 5 or so years, so I wonder what they would say if I suddenly emailed them?

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28 Name: Secret Admirer : 2006-10-02 23:43 ID:zx8Xy0zt


Allow me to refer you to a highly relevant story:

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29 Name: Secret Admirer : 2006-10-02 23:57 ID:2ELDmKsG

fail to address my point..but anyway, saw mention of cute girls somewhere...are you bi? and if you are, shouldn't you be asking for a jap girlfriend aswell?

30 Name: babygirl : 2006-10-06 12:29 ID:/xXcL8SM

hay sup

31 Name: Secret Admirer : 2006-10-06 14:08 ID:Heaven


If it is the other way around non-asian girls and women find Asian men more attractive, that would solve alot problems. The world would be more peaceful. Why do Asian men have to suffer? They always get shafted in terms of relationship and mate, courtship.

32 Name: colon : 2006-10-11 15:01 ID:0+/69eJh


33 Name: Secret Admirer : 2006-10-16 06:36 ID:yspliYBN


34 Name: Ray : 2007-04-23 16:59 ID:kssbw2o3

in fact i met lots of good guys from western countries although someone had discrimination caz im japanese maybe!!!
depend on the personality!!!!

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37 Name: かやしゅ : 2007-04-25 08:42 ID:jjxs2TpZ

>>35,36 That was very uncalled for. Go away. Tool.

As for myself, I prefer asian women as well, but I'm obviously not limiting my sights, so I'd go out with western women too.

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38 Name: Dorama : 2007-04-27 01:54 ID:Rkv/snHD

Eventho I'm somewhat a dorama otaku but still had to google Nishijima Hidetoshi. Haven't seen any of his works yet. Any you can recommend? Btw, I'd drool for a Akanishi Jin kinda bf eventho he's a decade younger than me.

39 Name: Secret Admirer : 2007-04-28 20:13 ID:6/aohOr8

Asian fetish, much? If any Japanese guy dates you, I pray for his soul. He would probably only date you for a green card.


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40 Name: Visual Kei : 2007-04-28 21:16 ID:gpcnicKD

I wouldn't mind having a japanese bf XP

41 Name: Secret Admirer : 2007-04-28 23:54 ID:GZpWXHf8

why the fuck would you want a small dicked asian b/f?

42 Name: Secret Admirer : 2007-04-29 04:54 ID:8DCHhKgb

really , how degrading

43 Name: Secret Admirer : 2007-04-29 10:58 ID:o9V7aqes

oh and I, I'd like a japanese girlfriend with a body and sexdrive like asia carrera. Any tips? (troll)

44 Name: Secret Admirer : 2007-04-30 21:14 ID:42HwOhc9

really, irl japanese guys look weird as fuck.

45 Name: japanese guy : 2007-06-10 21:05 ID:AGQsnRnP


46 Name: Secret Admirer : 2007-06-10 21:34 ID:085k8qpv

I don't know... but that kind of liking is kinda racist, don't you think?

First of all, you are prefering an Asian guy, leaving most of the population behind.

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47 Name: japanese guy : 2007-06-10 22:53 ID:AGQsnRnP

racist? no 意味さっぱりわかりまへんな 西島さんて誰よ?西島洋介ならしっとるぞワハハー 

48 Name: Secret Admirer : 2007-06-11 00:33 ID:085k8qpv


Err... sorry "japanese guy"-san

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49 Name: Secret Admirer : 2007-06-11 07:38 ID:2bPKSjtV


50 Name: japanese guy : 2007-06-11 09:44 ID:AGQsnRnP

write my opinion with english ? omg.its so hard to explain what i mean because my brain works as japanese all time. Other Japanese also. you need Translation web site..if you want to have a "pure or Nature" japanese lovers. lol

51 Name: Secret Admirer : 2007-06-11 10:14 ID:PtXdeHzC

Why is it that I get the feeling that many of the posters(anti-OP) here are offended because they aren't 'suitable of the OP's tastes?'
I wonder if they would be offended by a post made by another girl posting something like: "i want a (insert your race here) bf" or "i want a bf that sits in front of his computer all day playing games or watching anime."

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52 Name: Secret Admirer : 2007-06-12 07:48 ID:PtXdeHzC

Also why isn't anyone calling the guy from the singles rant thread 2 a racist for this:

"Ok my question is.. How in the hell would a asian guy get a white female in a majority white population?!

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53 Name: Secret Admirer : 2007-06-12 11:58 ID:Uaouulri


why not hook up with the OP then, sounds like a good start to me.

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54 Name: Secret Admirer : 2007-06-12 12:47 ID:uLwUe6Mb


Now stop being so picky ;D

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56 Name: Touch of Ink. : 2007-06-13 15:49 ID:XU+ehKHn

>>12 So, I have this chunky black girl looking for a date, are you interested? Her name is Lillian, and she's really sweet and protective. She's extremely horny too.

LoL, the current girl I'm with left her white boyfriend for me. That's so ironic!

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57 Name: Touch of Ink. : 2007-06-13 15:55 ID:XU+ehKHn


Find a japanese boy in the United States. Don't make this more difficult than you have to. Asian or something like that. Craigslist and say you're ONLY looking for a japanese person. A great hint --> Asian cultures are EXTREMELY loyal to each other and are pretty "Clingy" because of it. In America I have witnessed hundreds of Churches and Hang outs that are predominantly Asian-Only. They feel comfortable because of it. You just have to find a Japanese one. The place to look? Which is going to be kind of funny...

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58 Name: Visual Kei : 2007-06-15 04:34 ID:4MCVgtK2

Yay Asian guys ^^

59 Name: rerimdA terceS : 2007-06-15 15:09 ID:jyOYaVh7

same as >>57.
wait. is this actually love and romance related??? hmmm... oh well.

60 Name: J-guy :-) : 2007-07-25 17:26 ID:EaTdIinM

Hi from nice japanese guy here.
If any caucasian girl whos into Japanese guys,
please feel free to write me cutekun at aol dot com

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63 Name: Secret Admirer : 2007-07-26 22:04 ID:Heaven

>>57 sounds like they know how to do things..

As an aside, I'm in love with and dating a nerdy guy who first started talking to me at a 'Japanese Club' meeting. He asked me out, and I'm white & he's Asian.

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64 Name: Secret Admirer : 2007-12-10 06:09 ID:SauIVjnq

yeah i am japanese

65 Name: japanese guy : 2007-12-13 10:14 ID:1KPveG0B


66 Name: japanese guy : 2007-12-13 10:16 ID:1KPveG0B

contact me at

67 Name: Secret Admirer : 2007-12-14 00:45 ID:HBFgIQWZ


68 Name: Secret Admirer : 2008-03-04 05:56 ID:Heaven

Akanishi Jin likes blond girls. If I'm not mistaken, he was taken a snap of when having a date with one. It was probably on a Japanese tabloid magazine. I just remembered I read an article on the Net. If you are interested, try searching. It's perhaps in Japanese, though.

69 Name: Secret Admirer : 2008-03-10 14:21 ID:F5oLRaPe


70 Name: Secret Admirer : 2008-03-25 15:32 ID:jb8/IeNZ

I'm gonna go and assume that you are fat and or ugly, other wise you would be on the internet writing about wanting a japanese boyfriend. You'd already have one.

71 Name: Secret Admirer : 2008-03-30 23:02 ID:1xZ3s72J

The OP offended me on the behalf of the Japanese people even though I am a Caucasian male. And as for whoever said that the people who are "anti OP" are just hurt because they don't measure up to the posters standards lets take a look at the facts that I can see.

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72 Name: Secret Admirer : 2008-03-31 02:28 ID:YFkgjIHS


Excellent deconstruction, up until you dropped the ad hominem bomb.

73 Name: Secret Admirer : 2008-03-31 06:29 ID:t+Mr3Mit

>>72 lol'd, you speak the truth.

74 Name: Secret Admirer : 2008-04-18 07:04 ID:FL29JcEO

I think I like man like Nijishima Hidetoshi too. And I really fall in love with movies starring Nijishima san. Anybody can tell me whether he's married or not? Does he have a girlfriend now?

75 Name: japanese man : 2008-04-18 16:33 ID:KmO14LwK


76 Name: Secret Admirer : 2008-04-19 08:06 ID:1xZ3s72J

>>72 The ad hominem wasn't a part of my argument, just thrown in as reassurance for guys who feel like they have too much trouble finding ladies.

77 Name: みさ : 2008-04-21 16:05 ID:HxtHooyT

if he did have a wife/girlfriend would your opinion about him change?!

78 Name: masaki : 2008-08-20 10:35 ID:MNzc2XnE

hi, Im japanese boy, age is 25 . in the future, I want to go out with and hopefully marry europian or american girl. what should I do? my english is not so good. please let me know how I can go out with? Im living in japan tokyo
my email is

79 Name: Secret Admirer : 2008-08-20 17:48 ID:Heaven

1) Breed Japanese-American hybrid super race.
2) Exterminate jews.
3) ???????
4) Profit.

80 Name: Secret Admirer : 2008-08-20 20:00 ID:b4SosW/a


I'm not Japanese per se, but I speak it and I look it well enough for anyone's tastes. Third world Asian throwaways like me are the jackpot.

81 Name: Secret Admirer : 2008-08-27 16:43 ID:BlX01qMf

everyone wants an asian man, they make money and can get closer to china.

82 Name: ninja : 2010-02-10 15:20 ID:bxhseddb

This is great T-shirt to present your girlfriend if your are Japanese!

83 Name: Secret Admirer : 2010-02-10 23:57 ID:Heaven

Really? Seriously? Let this thread stupidly die... >.>

84 Name: Secret Admirer : 2010-02-11 01:37 ID:Pq2u+20F

uh im pretty sure theres some dating sites? idk, your making it really weird to answer your question.

i mean thats like saying i want to eat fish, but i wont be going to the market or the sea anytime soon to catch/buy them, what do i do?

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85 Name: oya seiichirou : 2010-02-11 19:50 ID:HGERRBCD

Is now living in Singapore
Large owned company
Is born of the Ashikaga Obata
Kiryu Industrial Engineering Department was high school

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86 Name: Curious : 2010-03-09 12:55 ID:3a78sJJA

Hi ^_^
I'm a Gaijin who lived in Japan for about a year as an exchange student. I have a wonderful Japanese boyfriend. He's very sweet! \^_^/
I was curious to know what is it exactly that some Japanese men find attractive about Gaijin Women?
I think Japanese women are cuter...

87 Name: Secret Admirer : 2010-03-17 09:35 ID:LY/qbKo0

wow, sour grapes to the max. when a creepy white douche fawns over asian girls like a fag, he's just "being true to himself," but it's the end of the fucking world if a white girl has a preference for asian men (fact: it's not). here's a tip: posting vitriol-filled rants over the internet doesn't make you cool, it just makes you more a pathetic dweeb. you might as well commit suicide if you're going to be such a waste of flesh anyway.

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88 Name: skyhigh : 2010-04-11 12:03 ID:Wyu3UIvD


I am Japanese boy but not currently living in Japan.

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89 Name: Secret Admirer : 2010-05-10 13:58 ID:qVkKiBvp

As long as you come to J night-club,
there is no reason that you don't get picked up.
I will pick you up if u r left alone lol
J-girls can be really harsh to strangers like 100% ignoring

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90 Name: miya : 2011-01-15 14:21 ID:bMq+BJZy

i'm a Japanese mix Thailand, why everyone up to find a japan guy ? they all same as everyguy around you. =_=

91 Name: Secret Admirer : 2011-01-19 07:05 ID:Heaven

If only some people would get that through their heads, it'd make things a little less annoying.

92 Name: want 2b Jpnse : 2011-01-19 19:52 ID:iCz/C9EP is that who the OP is talking about?

93 Name: want 2b Jpnse : 2011-01-19 19:54 ID:iCz/C9EP is that who the OP is talking about?

94 Name: D_Visual_Kei_Vege : 2011-04-18 19:28 ID:c1FxvPJu

I totally want a Japanese boyfriend to...

But I'm Australian... :0(

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95 Name: D_Visual_Kei_Vege : 2011-04-18 19:31 ID:c1FxvPJu

Japanese/Chinese/Thai are all amazing.... I think girls like the J rock visual kei style, that doesn't mean that other Asians don't have it...

Give me an Asian visual kei guy any day-I'll be his forever... :0)

96 Name: Secret Admirer : 2011-05-09 04:23 ID:X+mwic7M

there are a lot of travelers from Japan in Australia, right?
you can get someone from the travelers.

or get mixi account.

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97 Name: Secret Admirer : 2011-06-10 01:44 ID:URHXkUg4

Really i like asian guys but you guys are making a big deal in life you well be rejected and you have to move on. And other people have other ways of thinking. do yourself a favor guys and get over it...... And as far as i know you are unique you like what you like and people are going to run their mouths but is all good thats what you like so dont worr.

98 Name: ottersmk : 2011-06-26 02:00 ID:QVPI5AHI

How to get a Japanese Boyfriend
(from an American girl’s point of view)

Disclaimer: While it's true you can't generalize everyone into one category, each person is unique- however there are some factors that would attract certain people to only/typically Japanese (or only such-and-such men/women).

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99 Name: Secret Admirer : 2011-06-28 03:47 ID:yeY3XaKR


basically date a Japanese man if you have zero worth as a female and enjoy being placed into pre-Victorian patriarchal bullshit. lol japan is such a shit culture.

100 Name: ottersmk : 2011-06-29 05:27 ID:QVPI5AHI

It's not all that bad! I have a Japanese boyfriend and he's very sweet and kind. :) I lived in Japan for a year and thats kind of the "feel" I got from dating there. So while that advice isn't good for everyone, there is a vain side to dating japanese men sometimes. However (and this isnt exactly good either) just being a foreigner in Japan makes you pretty so it kind of works for the vain thing..?

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101 Name: Alicia : 2011-09-26 05:41 ID:c5KdESLC


102 Name: Secret Admirer : 2011-10-13 12:15 ID:jnHKpCS5

cool japanese boy wants black girlfriend.

103 Name: Secret Admirer : 2011-10-16 00:49 ID:tejzx+Ki

Are you upset because you don't match up to their superior standards of beauty?

104 Name: Secret Admirer : 2011-11-06 16:45 ID:ai8B44yB

much jealousy huh? lol

105 Name: Ara Joyce : 2011-11-07 13:16 ID:XLeumNTE


106 Name: AA Girl : 2011-12-12 02:08 ID:BamsyFRB

i'm an african american girl who is attracted to asian men. why is it that you never seen many black girls with asian guys?

107 Name: Secret Admirer : 2013-07-10 16:09 ID:4P5pZ70Y

108 Name: Secret Admirer : 2013-07-11 18:10 ID:YdYEgem/


Hello everyone in the United States

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109 Name: lolicon : 2013-07-21 10:57 ID:XfCZ5axg

there are indeed a lot of good looking guys here but half of them wears make-up.. weird. their frail looking, thin. but the girls here are 75% of the time pretty and/or sexy. perhaps 25% of them gets pretty due to their make-up abilities. but damn they're hot.
i'm here in japan that's why i know. you should visit sometime to see what you're missing. the guys at youtube are just a handful.

110 Name: Secret Admirer : 2013-08-11 14:52 ID:QKOXBiOb

Sadly for the same reasons you almost never see Asian men with girls that aren't Asian, because of stereotypes, and the ingraining of those stereotypes at a young age, at least in the US.

111 Name: Secret Admirer : 2014-01-10 13:47 ID:1PbqYrv2

hong in there