hey , my closest friend in highschool was this very loud and popular guy, he had the looks, girls all over him, and actualyl, he was a really great person ( other wise, i wouldn't be his friend, duh ) , and you had me on the other hand, who nobody knew his name, but he would hand around the the guy most of the time.
you knew what? he got me the opputrtunity to finally meet some people through him, so it was great.
but as wherther i like outgoing girls, or girls who are less outgoing, i'll go with the one who is nicer! but the outgoing one will definetly have more chances to itract to people, so she has more people drawn to her!