I am a shy, quiet type of girl...not awkward or ugly, but a bit meek. My friend is loud and almost obnoxious and gets all of the attention. Men flock to her, and she is not even that pretty! Do men really prefer that type of girl? Must I quit being feminine and start acting like "one of the guys" to find a man?
That is reality for you and all of us who aren't good looking. The majority of girls/women go for people who looks decent to them. It doesn't matter how good you are or your heart is pure gold, what really matters is your appearance.
Yeah but you can somewhat balance the bad looks with stylish clothing and such.
what to say?
>>19 is kinda wrong, 'cause I've not been pretty over the years, but I've been with many girls in those years. Why? My girls think I'm a nice guy, that's why. At least here, girls find boys attractive, not for their appearance(at least not that much), but for their hearts too. Doesn't matter you be the gorgeous best looking man... and an asshole. You'll get lots of girls, sure, but will end up being alone, or changing your ways, trying to be more nice, less asshole.
>> At least here, girls find boys attractive, not for their appearance(at least not that much), but for their hearts too.
Where do you live, pal? I'm gonna move there!
Yea. Girls want the guy with the heart of gold, but they only give a chance to guys with good looks/good style/wealth/etc (depends on the girl).
Where do quiet girls of this sort hang out? On random encounters in places like bookstores and cafes, I never seem to run into this kind of girl.
Shit, I just said "random encounter" in relation to this... that's pretty sad.
Read my question again but if you could, remove the RPG references from it. Thanks.