Ive got a problem. Last wednesday i went to play bowling with girls. Two of them are N and U. i met them only on that day and my friend who is close to N said that U will say yes if I confessed to U, a few days later after the bowling day. Even in the bowling arena, N confront me asking if I like U. I got away by saying "I dont know, we just met." The problem in that U is not my type even though she is nice, i like her only as a friend. The next week, i went out to play Tennis with a few friends and girls. I saw Y which is also N's friend. I am interested in her but I'm afraid I am stuck right now. Reason being is that N is pushing me and U around to be together and anything i said will be spread around by N. I wanna try to get closer to Y but i'm afraid she has that feeling of me and U is a "possibility" as she writes it on her blog. My problem is that should i pursue Y? Does Y close her heart to me by thingking that I should be with someone else? How to reject U without hurting her feelings and still open the possibility of getting Y?
it's still a bit hazy for me.
Y is writing about "U" and radja?
thx for the reply. I think im screwed then since Y, U and N are all in the same group or gang. I'd say with 80%-90% confidence that everyone in the group knows U's feeling towards me ToT. Will Y close her heart no matter what happens?
it's kinda some sort of girl's rule..
if they are close friends the rest will leave you no matter what.
I'd give up and find a better situation.
And perhaps stop using letters. O.o
Haha I'm using letters just to be cautious if they check on this website.
Thanks for the suggestion. I won't get my hopes high but I won't back down without a fight.
I would say that like girls have a thing where they try not to date guys that their friends like. So.... I dunno what to say, sorry.
This is a love and romance board, not an Algebra board. Give us some goddamn names, even if they are fake instead of varible names.
Also seconding an update.
About your second question, I think you have to make it clear to (most likely) N how you feel about U. Hopefully this doesn't turn out to be "zOMG drama." But if you continue hanging out with these people maybe eventually you will have a chance with Y, but not necessarily. You would have to wait until U got over the whole situation (aka has no romantic feelings for you).
Ok let me just list the names
Angie > The gossip girl
Ruth > The one that likes me
>>12 i say dont give up, although lizzie may have a crush on jeff, she might get over him again so keep it up!! xD
tell us what this jeff is like??
As always, i use fake name since my friend showed this site to one of them. Although i dont think they checked.
Benny told me that lizzie is trying to give up on jeff.