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1 Name: Radja : 2006-10-21 09:11 ID:ifeIyBpK

Ive got a problem. Last wednesday i went to play bowling with girls. Two of them are N and U. i met them only on that day and my friend who is close to N said that U will say yes if I confessed to U, a few days later after the bowling day. Even in the bowling arena, N confront me asking if I like U. I got away by saying "I dont know, we just met." The problem in that U is not my type even though she is nice, i like her only as a friend. The next week, i went out to play Tennis with a few friends and girls. I saw Y which is also N's friend. I am interested in her but I'm afraid I am stuck right now. Reason being is that N is pushing me and U around to be together and anything i said will be spread around by N. I wanna try to get closer to Y but i'm afraid she has that feeling of me and U is a "possibility" as she writes it on her blog. My problem is that should i pursue Y? Does Y close her heart to me by thingking that I should be with someone else? How to reject U without hurting her feelings and still open the possibility of getting Y?

2 Name: Secret Admirer : 2006-10-21 09:55 ID:Heaven

it's still a bit hazy for me.

Y is writing about "U" and radja?

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3 Name: Radja : 2006-10-21 11:48 ID:ifeIyBpK

thx for the reply. I think im screwed then since Y, U and N are all in the same group or gang. I'd say with 80%-90% confidence that everyone in the group knows U's feeling towards me ToT. Will Y close her heart no matter what happens?

4 Name: Secret Admirer : 2006-10-21 21:08 ID:Heaven


it's kinda some sort of girl's rule..
if they are close friends the rest will leave you no matter what.

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5 Name: Secret Admirer : 2006-10-21 23:03 ID:VfENxytD

I'd give up and find a better situation.

And perhaps stop using letters. O.o

6 Name: Secret Admirer : 2006-10-22 01:11 ID:Heaven

ITT we speak gibberish.

7 Name: Radja : 2006-10-22 02:45 ID:ifeIyBpK

Haha I'm using letters just to be cautious if they check on this website.

Thanks for the suggestion. I won't get my hopes high but I won't back down without a fight.

8 Name: Secret Admirer : 2006-10-22 03:35 ID:Heaven

I would say that like girls have a thing where they try not to date guys that their friends like. So.... I dunno what to say, sorry.

9 Name: Secret Admirer : 2006-10-22 06:05 ID:EZdz4ZQF

This is a love and romance board, not an Algebra board. Give us some goddamn names, even if they are fake instead of varible names.

10 Name: Secret Admirer : 2006-10-22 23:40 ID:Heaven

I already told that and it isn't contribting any extra info.


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11 Name: Secret Admirer : 2006-10-24 18:14 ID:1A9LrKY6

Also seconding an update.

About your second question, I think you have to make it clear to (most likely) N how you feel about U. Hopefully this doesn't turn out to be "zOMG drama." But if you continue hanging out with these people maybe eventually you will have a chance with Y, but not necessarily. You would have to wait until U got over the whole situation (aka has no romantic feelings for you).

12 Name: Radja : 2006-10-25 12:56 ID:Lzd8taVp

Ok let me just list the names

Angie > The gossip girl
Ruth > The one that likes me

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13 Name: 映画男 : 2006-10-27 14:26 ID:b3POhD9r

>>12 i say dont give up, although lizzie may have a crush on jeff, she might get over him again so keep it up!! xD

tell us what this jeff is like??

14 Name: Secret Admirer : 2006-10-28 01:51 ID:Heaven


lizzie has the least shitty name

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15 Name: Radja : 2006-10-30 06:05 ID:2gTgPV2W

As always, i use fake name since my friend showed this site to one of them. Although i dont think they checked.

Benny told me that lizzie is trying to give up on jeff.

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