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Should I tell him, or just give up? (43)

23 Name: keiko : 2006-10-26 02:12 ID:Q5NN1RIT

I know exactly what you are going through because I am in a similar love/hate situation where the person is literally in love with me one second, and then will completely freak out on me, and everyone else. That is different as he is going to see if he is suffering from bipolar but it is the same idea...

I would say "stay away" but I would also say that if there are many good things about him that OUTWEIGH the bad, it may be possible to "alter" him...It could be extremely stressful for you but either way, you are 17 and it is not like this is going to be a commitment at this point in time. I think what you are going through now is a good experience because you are learning to deal with difficult people- something you will always encounter in life.

Develop a strong friendship with him, maybe? Rather than committing to him because maybe he is the jealous type who might abuse you...You never know. I think you should keep him as a friend, though. And if you decide to go further, that is your decision.