Disclaimer: This thread is more of a "holy shit I'm screwed, help!" kind of thread rather than a "this girl is so hot, get me together with her" kind of thread.
Well, I started a thread here a month back but it failed. Anyways, here's the run down of my situation prior to today.
He also said that "she's emo. She is, she just doesn't dress like it." Well, this doesn't bother me at all. Also, it was one of those things once again that you couldn't outwardly see, but it would make sense it she was. In fact, it made her even more interesting. Some people consider me like that, but I'm no wrist-cutter. Neither is she. This aspect of her didn't bother me at all, it just made her more interesting.
>>3 is good advice.
Otherwise, just take it slow and rationalize. The best thing you could do right now is ask her out. If she says yes, great. If she says no, you work on getting over her. Do not deceive yourself into thinking that if you wait until just the right time, she will be more likely to say yes. If she likes you, she likes you. If she's repulsed by you, she's repulsed by you. Odds are this isn't going to change. You might as well ask her out, get it over with, and deal.
to be in high school again...
This is such a
>"this girl is so hot, get me together with her" kind of thread.
>"well dude, if you don't talk to her nothing will happen."
Calm down more, consider her nothing more than practice.
Tell her you've made up your mind. You want a woman who you can talk to.
Wow. Your going through something exactly like me! Only I joined the club and now I'm closer to her than I was weeks ago!
You can't tell her you've made your mine if you haven't really ever spoken to her in the first place.
She probably didn't take it seriously. But if you went up to her and started hitting on her obviously, she might think that it may have been something.
But since she obviously doens't know you that well, I woudl say get to kinow her. Go up to her. Go "Hey, my name is blah blah. I notice we're in the same whatever class together." and start talking.
Omfg, OP, do NOT under ANY circumstances do what TokyopJapan did. If you read his thread you will know what I mean.
Anyway. I quite enjoyed reading this. I liked the "d-d-don't t-t-take ittooseriouslyi2o34h09y9sw" part. Other than that, your friend is not "pro" at all, but I give him credit for initiating something you wouldn't have done. I think she says it her self when she says "ew, I don't even know him". Ie: He's not in any of my clubs.
Anyways, guys. I'm about to head out to school. I don't know if it's whether it's cold or something, but I'm really nervous. Shaking in fact.
Though I was calm and able to rationalize it last night, I'm still really really nervous.