So I have an ongoing situation that is hard to explain...
I have sexual preferences that are making it difficult to find both relationships and/or agreeable sex partners. I'm bisexual, but I prefer women. However, I only prefer women provided they are very unfeminine... meaning, not "girly", very thin with small breasts, and generally more male/boyish than girl. As for men, I can only enjoy sex with men imagining that I'm another man having gay sex. Heterosexual sex is highly unattractive to me; I can't watch heterosexual porn without feeling very disgusted.
Wow....that must be hard for you. I don't know what to say...
I don't believe you should have a partner who needs pretending to enjoy sex with you. Because as you have noticed, sex does mean a lot for a relationship, believe it or not, and if that is not shared pleasure...
You need to decide on one gender you prefer to have sex with and not flipflop.
if i were ur boyfriend, i didnt care about u having sex with women, but "I prefer women" would be a problem.
And if u prefer women, why do u have to worry this? because u should have got a "girlfriend", not a boyfriend in the first place.
Seattle, Denver, SanFransicso, Vancouver, Toronto, New York City, Chicago, Detroit and Washington DC are ...FULL... of people like you.
So is Europe.
I guess that makes you... "Human" ~.~ Welcome to Earth.