What's it like? My friends have told me it's romantic and heartbeating but how does it happen?
I'm in the same situation. It probably doesn't help that your name is TokyoJapan22.
watch that movie with the same title, you might get an answer
is that a joke?
I changed my name
I'm 14, but I share the same thing as you.
Do what I do: chill.
It's not good to think too much about it, you'll end up feeling like crap.
In my case my first real kiss (not counting spin the bottle and mucking around with friends and the like) came after a very long and uncomfortable hour or so sitting next to the girl on a wall with me attempting to make conversation about the weather and the like. I was shy, she was even shyer, but we both wanted it so, eventually, I sort of got up, she sort of got up, looking at me out of the corner of her eye (she's ever so cute sometimes) and then I sort of went in.
As far as I remember, my first kiss wasn't a great kiss. It wouldn't be, I mean, it's not like either of us knew how to do it well. I don't feel any nostalgia about it either. I guess that's sad, but oh well. I've been kinda jaded for a long time.
I had my first kiss on my 18th bday, the girl said it was a present. It felt funny.
my first reall kiss that i actually wanted to have was jsut a crappy peck on the lips. I made a joke about it saying she can teach me how to kiss properly next time we meet ;)
I dont have much experiance with girls, like most 4channers im guessing.
>like most 4channers im guessing.
>like most 4channers
There's nothing wrong with being 22 and never being kissed!
later of 4ch.. say what
lanr of 4ch?
hmm....So it's a matter of randomness to kiss? Does it matter where it happens and when?
It does matter where and when. Usually you want to kiss at her door at the end of the date. This gives her an escape if she didn't like the kiss or date, or if she likes you, makes her want you more since you leaving on a high note.
Kissing is gross and unhygienic.
Don't do it. Seriously. The other person's mouth tastes weird and smells funny and this is a person who brushes their teeth all the time.
I don't kiss girls because their mouths are connected to their rectum.
No YOU fucking grow up. Kissing seriously IS unhygienic. Do you even know how kissing got started? It was a means to give food from one person to another or something like that.
kissing maybe unhygienic but I love doing it :) There is something really nice about that kind of contacted with another person.
I love kissing. My first kiss was by the girl I'm gonna marry someday. She asked me out and she kissed me first. After our first date we cuddled and kissed and etc., till it got to the lips. Its very soft, kinda slobbery, but still wonderful. And its quite a sensation when she sticks her tongue in your mouth. Now we make out almost every day, frenching and everthing. I love her so much :)
>>27 Yes, it's true you can get STDs from kissing but that's a risk one must take. Kissing is one way to show intimacy and to sexually arouse the other partner. And no need to swear mate, that just proves my point about you needing to grow up.
Pokemon guy? Virgin?
WTF? Oh I'm so sorry I ruined your perfect socialist bubble of reality.
bottom line... kissing is a good thing, to many people try and fill there lifes with words that dont mean anything, and kissing is a way to show someone you care about them with out having to speak.
I'm not 22......I'm in highschool, I just wanna know what it is like. Just in case I DO get a highschool sweetheart which probably won't happen cause nice guys finish last.
do you listen to green day?...
anyway, from howstuffworks.com:
I was 25 when I first kissed a girl. It was very sweet and nice, and it really builds affection and good mood. I'm still a virgin though and will probably remain so :/
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My first kiss was incredible. It was in a completely ordinary place for no particular reason, but it was very special for us at the time. It was soft and warm and... wonderful. It really was one of the most incredible experiences of my life.
Don't worry about not being kissed, whether you're 22 or 82. It will probably only make it more special when you finally do find someone who cares for you. And you will. I know that you've heard it a million times, but be yourself. There has got to be at least one person out there who will someday see the good in you.
Yeah I listen to Green Day but I'm starting to lose interest of them since they aint coming up with some new songs lately?
It's just so hard waiting for that one person to come by, y'know. It hurts even more when you think you finally found her cause you have that tingling sensation and everytime you see her you fanatasize how it would be to get closer to someone so perfect. And when you make a move, she see's you as a stalker, when all you wanted to do was try to talk to her. It's hard enough not to cry when you did everything you could just to be noticed only to have it backfire and be humiliated. So most likely when I see the one for me, It'll be harder to know her cause I'll have the memory of before. Maybe the whole "kissing" thing is just a mirage. I guess it'll be a long time of waiting for me till I experience it. Besides, Nice guys finish last and will fall many times until he can no longer get back up on his feet.
Kissing is overrated guys, don't take it so seriously. And fucking too.
I'm 18. I haven't been kissed, and I honestly don't care. If you are sitting around being depressed that you haven't been kissed, get some hobbies. I'm not trying to be mean, I'm just saying that it's not a big deal and when the time is right you will get your kiss on. Until then, what's the point of sweating it besides just wasting time when you could be doing something...I don't know, fun?
HAHA. Fun? It's hard trying to have fun without something or someone getting in the way.
well if something in your life is preventing you from having fun, then why not push it aside? you are using the excuse of not having a girlfriend for accomplishing nothing. you must live a sad pitiful life because all you want is a girlfriend. there is more to life than kissing a girl. >>48 is completely right. what is he big deal? im 19, i have never kissed a girl and i have no regrets. im in college hoping to get a phd and a hell of alot research done. i volunteer, i play in a band, i am in a soccer league. it is possible i will never ever kiss a girl and i am perfectly fine with it. so go, worry about not find a girl and kissing her, and when you do, im sure you will start a new thread, "Never Been Fucked." for you, my horny friend, are more concerned about satisfying your carnal pleasure than pursuing the more finer things in life.
Try reaching 30-something and never being kissed and come back.
it not that big of a deal, you know whats the big deal?
the poster of this message never been in love with anyone. No is special for him...
now thats something to be concerned about, cause if you can like others and try, you'll reach them eventually. but if you don't then you are screwed.