a while ago i met a girl at school, and she's the really out-going and fun to be with type. I'm the type of person that is kinda shy and really not all that out-going but we became friends anyways. so after a while, I start to have these feelings for her, but because she see's me as a good friend she starts telling me about a guy she met and likes... i know it's not mebecause she told me his name and he's a pretty goodlooking guy. but, i kinda know him, and he does not like the idea of the whole "gf+bf" thing.
I'm just so confused with girls now-a-days. All of my self confadince went down the drain when I liked one girl, got really close to her, we shared all of our problemes and all that, and then i confessed that i liked her more than a friend, and she said that all she saw me as was a good friend. I tried again the next year to see if anything changed, but nothing changed, she still only see's me as a friend.
How about you avoid being friends with them in the first place. Seeing how the last girl sees you only as a friend and this girl obviously sees you as a friend, maybe you should try avoiding becoming just the friend and try to become the boyfriend.
Well, how do I do that? I feel that I need to know a girl well before i try anything and if i'm not her friend. and, it seems that it's always someone that beats me to the question. and it's usually some better looking guy. Like those guys in the korean drama's. I'm thinking she might be getting over him (she does not talk about him as much) So yea
That is what dating is for. I mean after a few times of meeting her you can determine if you want to go out with her.
yea, i guess your right. Highschool is all about learning. But, i'll keep on trying with the girl i like now. I know it wont give me a better shot, but that doesnt mean i cant stop trying, right? besides, we already decided that' we'd hang tomarrow.