K lets see. I get really untalkative when my girlfriends friends are with us. Im perfect when we're alone together but as soon as her friend turns up its really hard for me to talk. I feel like a spare part yaknow? They notice that im not talking and try to get me to talk but i always die down again.. Dont get me wrong, her friend is really cool.
Is it you have something to say, and you can't get it out,
you don't know enough of their conversation to say something?
same problem here..
for me it's just..
Maybe your worried you'll say something dumb and sound stupid?? If that's the case, don't, if you say something stupid they'll forget in two seconds. Just be confident, if you can add something to a conversation, do it!
yes, if you know anything about what they're talking about try to make an intelligent comment, but don't go overboard. Just be natural
Yeah thats the thing, most of the time i dont know anything about what they are talking about. Its mainly stuff like..
Girfriends friend: "Oh my lord remember whe [insert name] did this or that?!"