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Very complex situation. (9)

1 Name: love_struck_loser : 2006-12-04 19:32 ID:tQ8XpOJ1

Okay, so at my school, me and my friends have our own little group, but now I think the group may be split up because one of my friends, I really like her, and I think she likes me, and I think she may think that I like her, but not know for sure, and even if we do both like each other, we don't want to say anything cause it might mess w/ our group, and I am pretty sure neither of us want that. So this is a two part question. How do I tell her I like her, and what do we do to maintain the group after wards. Actually, this is three part, because I also need some guesses at what happens if she rejects me.

2 Name: Secret Admirer : 2006-12-04 19:47 ID:Heaven

The group should not care if you two go out. Unless everyone else in the group likes her. Don't sweat it, it is high school and everyone always creates too much drama than needed.

3 Name: Secret Admirer : 2006-12-04 20:53 ID:C5YLnrFf


agreeing with 2.

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4 Name: James : 2006-12-04 21:08 ID:MhDPgGfb

i agree as well.. if they are true friends then they would be happy for you two.. and if i were you and really liked the girl.. i wouldn't care anyways even if they did decide to break the group..

5 Name: Secret Admirer : 2006-12-04 21:53 ID:a4i3emoB

I would understand if your "group" started having trouble if one of the people would be a former boyfriend of hers or something, but otherwise, if they make drama, it their own problem, and maybe they are not really that good friends

6 Name: love_struck_loser : 2006-12-05 12:19 ID:tQ8XpOJ1

But its important that we stay together, and there are some of my friends who im not sure if they like her too.

7 Name: Secret Admirer : 2006-12-05 13:05 ID:a4i3emoB

Well, it's kinda your decision then. What is more important for you? Remember that friends but also girlfriends come and go, so judge carefully. Also, if some friends like her too, well bad luck for them, I guess

8 Name: Secret Admirer : 2006-12-05 16:54 ID:Heaven

The Beatles?

9 Name: Secret Admirer : 2006-12-06 08:10 ID:Heaven

if you think your other friends might be keen on her too, then you damn well oughta make your move before they actually say or do anything about it, because once they do it'll then be weird if you make a move.