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Strange mixture (12)

1 Name: Secret Admirer : 2006-12-08 19:58 ID:cMWYQ+2x

Ok, this will turn out as one of those "what to do?" threads. Here some background:

In the 12th grade, a new girl joined. She's Polish, curvy built(not skinny, not fat) and is a really nice girl to chill with. I'm still kinda socially inept so I shyly talk to her here and there, quickly find out that she has a boyfriend since 2 years. Well, fuck

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2 Name: Secret Admirer : 2006-12-08 21:28 ID:hXdoSNlr

Do you think you might have a chance?

if you don't think you don't have one and really

3 Name: Secret Admirer : 2006-12-08 21:30 ID:Heaven

sorry.. previous post incomplete.

Do you think you might have a chance?

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4 Name: Secret Admirer : 2006-12-09 01:07 ID:6pSk3lcz

Telling her will probably help you move on, especially since you haven't been able to move on. Just say "I like you, but I'm not asking you to date me or anything. I just need to get this off my back. I really still want us to be friends, and this not to effect us. I just had to tell you to continue with our lives like this." See where she takes it, if she says she doesn't feel the same way, oh well, you can still be friends.

5 Name: Secret Admirer : 2006-12-09 02:31 ID:wcYfOGuX

we like excitement and a challenge

6 Name: Secret Admirer : 2006-12-09 06:50 ID:ObrItT3b

That will change once you realize excitement only gets you so far, and challenges usually aren't worth the trouble.

7 Name: yo : 2006-12-09 11:37 ID:U93GuygH

teh is tru, I agree

8 Name: lol OP : 2006-12-09 19:18 ID:cMWYQ+2x

Well see, this is the strange part. All those 2 years, everyone in my grade would crack some joke about how we 2 were like a couple and fit really good to each other. And I(and she perhaps too) sometimes sense this...yeah well, some kind of tension between us, not in a bad way, mind you, but as if we somehow want to behave otherwise, but can't. Maybe I'm just also reading into things, but couple of my friends confirmed that there is something strange going on between us.

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9 Name: Secret Admirer : 2006-12-10 09:41 ID:TK0xnMn1

Try asking her out, and don't just say "want to hang out some time"... make it obvious, but not too direct. Personally, direct is panic-inducing.

I'd ask if she would like to go out sometime, just to spend some time together. That's nice and general, but a bit more intimate. Leave it open to bringing friends though. Just see how she reacts.

10 Name: Frigid Onanoko : 2006-12-11 12:37 ID:CuAIVBG9

You went to the Netherlands! only thing FO need to know.

yeah, kudos to yers. frigid onanoko to lazy to read whole problem. Netherlands!!

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11 Name: Secret Admirer : 2006-12-11 13:23 ID:Ekjykm2k

Frigid Onanoko is weird.

12 Name: Secret Admirer : 2006-12-11 15:35 ID:cMWYQ+2x

Frigid Onanoko does have some point though. Weird he is, that's for sure, but he has some point.