Hey y'all, you might remember me from the thread "SHIT! I just slept with my best friend". I'm callin' in with a progress report and with a new question.
The past month has been really smooth, with us being near inseparable, and we've had a couple of more sexual encounters. But she's not giving any clear signals on where this wants to go.
So, ever since you had sex, she has been like this all the time?
Maybe, like you said, the thing is that she is your BEST friend. She thinks the same and ofcourse, being with your best friend = best time, right?
Tell her 'I don't speak womanese', tell her how you feel, and ask for a direct response.
>>So, ever since you had sex, she has been like this all the time?
Not really, but the past two weeks, yes. It's been about a month since we had that little "thing" happen, sooo... still not much time has elapsed.
I think you should give thought to what you want, see if it's in any way compatible, in the long run, with what she wants. if it isn't, then you should probably part ways unless one of you is willing to change.