So here is my story, its a bit lengthy, so kudos to anyone who reads the whole thing.
So, there is this guy that I really like, hell, I love him. We went to high school together, but we are 3 grades apart (he is 16 I just turned 18 2 weeks ago). We met in the hallway at school; we were both wearing black trenchcoats and I made a comment to the effect of "hey, nice coat"; we've been great friends ever since. He would often seek me out in the mornings before class, when I would sit in the cafeteria scowling because of how tired I was. He would always brighten up my face though, with his antics and conversation. He would also call me during the evenings, we would talk for hours about all kinds of things. The conversations I had with him started out as idle chit-chat, but quickly became serious and dee. We would spend time together outside of school, and we would tell eachother everything. when he found out that I was gay, it didnt phase him at all. Rather, it increased his desire to spend time with me. As a friend of mine put it, if I walked into a crowded room, he would notice and run towards me in mid-conversation, from the other side of the room. To be honest, I always thought he was cute and charming, but one I got to know him, I fell in love with him. Whenever we were alone, or out of the public eye, he would always open up to me -he showed me a side of himself that few ever really saw.
Just let them fanatics be. It's not like you can make them refuse their beliefs just with a chat. Or with a fighting or torture.
I've yet to see a flaming homo beating someone up.
I'm happy for your ignorance about aids prevention. Remind me not to ever sleep with you, because you're statistically more likely to have it than a random homosexual. /golfclap
>>4 is absolutely right. if he means that much to you, you'll only regret it if you run away.
i wish your relationship the best.
keep your chin up, ignore those mean people! T_T
OP, good luck!
Ganbare Densha! ..Err, Homoqueerfag-Blackcoat! <3
It seems as this kid has charmed your heart and as sad as it may be it may be time [for at least now] to let him go. Allow him to have some contact with you, as in talk to people that know him, talk to people that are his friend (if he is social with people you can talk to) and have the same email address as you.
After having some time to think this whole thing over, I believe that this course of action is best. I know that he wont soon forget about me and sometime in the future, we can be together –if even only as friends.
I didn't know you were a gay guy until halfway into your second post. Thought you were a little minx lesbian that his parents were afraid of XD.
Anyhow. He sounds super cute, totally into you and I'm very sure he's just confused and pressured about his sexuality. Hence don't make it look like you're influencing him to become gay (that's probably why he freaked with the "<3"). Keep talking to him as a friend, and I guess let him make the first move. Just don't distance yourself as far as to lose him. As a girl, I would love to have a guy would be so happy to see me.
Dude, that SUCKS! Your ex-boyfriend has a(n un-healthy) crush on Jesus n'shit.
SEVEN Billion People Live on Earth. Get with SomeBody who Respects-&-Appreciates ...YOU!