Okay, perhaps I am just foolish, but as much as I despire women who are infatuated with the wrong type of guys, there is no point in trying to deny that I am the same.
Throughout the many years of schools, I've always had a crush on this guy. He is the type of guy that is arrogant, good looking, popular, and so forth. Adding to that, he has slept around with around seven girls, I believe. Well, he has a girlfriend. I know I should hate him for sleeping around when such, and would generally look down on guys that do so, but I just can't with him. You see, he and I are not strangers. We are, in a few ways, friends. Like I've said, we've known each other for years because of school and usually talk everyday, though not always. And despite his typical behavior and attitude, he is actually a nice guy. It may be for that reason that I like him.
"I know I need to get over him and find better people"
Hit the nail right on the head, son.
"Is it possible after so many years?"
And some guys wonder why the girls are always getting fucked by the jerks.
I really don't get why girls all seem to pick out the guy whose fucked over every other girl the know and go, "Ohhhhh, but I can CHANGE him!"?
All girls do not do that. There are just too many girls who are like that, but by no means all, or even close to all. At least not if you overview a larger group, and not just some "inbred" "incestous" drama group (not literally, obviously). Like the one a pal of mine hangs out at sometimes. Everyone has made out with everyone, wannabe-emos/goths, and the chicks apparently do not realize that everyone else trying to hook up with a certain single person (the one who is the latest fad in the group) is not a valid reason for trying to hook up with that person as well ("Ooh! Everyone is trying to get him?! That automatically means he's the most awesome bloke.. I MUST WIN HIM OVER TO PROVE THAT I AM THE MOST AWESOME CHICK!"). Shudder shudder. Horrible people. I'm glad I have nothing to do with them.
>doesn't by itself include being a rude asshole.
well, i guess u should leave him. its very difficult to change guys feeling once its set. almost impossible. he is a guy what exactly u think. so forget(at least try) about him and find a better one
Because many many many women are dumb and secretly like to get hurt so they can cry about it?
My best advice would be the one from >>2 - that is, don't date someone who would have to change for you to be happy with them. If you can't accept someone the way they are already, then it's not worth it.
And I know you don't want less than that - you don't just want sex, you want to get over him. And, yes - it's perfectly possible to get over someone after a long while.
I've actually dated someone to get over her...and it worked, so maybe the sex thing will work too. Rape him hard then dump him, I say. He sounds like the type of guy who would like a good challenge. If you want to be with him, then you'd have to play games. Btw, I was entirely joking about the rape thing. I'm just showing you how ridiculous it would be for you to pursue him (no offense). It's not worth it; you deserve better, and someone better is out there...like me. You couldn't resist me, baby ;) Joking again, sorry. Just trying to lighten the mood a bit.
Rape him hard then dump him
dont joke, actually its a quite good idea.
>>12 Don't doubt, my friend. Learn from my wisdom.