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1 Name: Secret Admirer : 2006-12-24 21:07 ID:n6C6xrLw

Well, I've found a girl who is probably the exact image of what I have, all along, considered the ideal woman. The only problem? She's not legally a woman yet, as I'm sure you guessed from the title.

I've been trying to forget about her, but my adoration of her is already to the point where I can't find fault in her and she runs through my mind almost every few minutes. If only she were a little bit older, I wouldn't feel so bad about this infatuation, but as it is it pains the hell out of me knowing that there is nothing I can do about this.

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2 Name: Secret Admirer : 2006-12-24 22:22 ID:CdGAA0MR

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3 Name: Secret Admirer : 2006-12-24 22:30 ID:5BjLaHRL

Well, how much younger is she? I have been in that situation many times, as the younger female under the consent. I think in most states you can still date her, but you cannot have sex with her. So, maybe you can be patient and wait for her physically.

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4 Name: Secret Admirer : 2006-12-25 04:49 ID:n6C6xrLw

>>3

Ah, so, I can still date her but not have sex... that's a pretty good deal, actually. I don't really think about her in the sexual sense so much as the romantic sense, so that wouldn't be such a big deal.

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5 Name: Secret Admirer : 2006-12-25 05:02 ID:CdGAA0MR

How much of a difference is there?

6 Name: Secret Admirer : 2006-12-25 07:51 ID:SypA71Wn

Yes, tell us the age difference please. No more answers until we hear that first.

7 Name: Secret Admirer : 2006-12-25 08:29 ID:/4+mK31t

No, I'll give you a brief answer:

If you are over 19 and/or she is under 17, then you are treading on DANGEROUSLY thin ice.

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8 Name: Secret Admirer : 2006-12-25 12:43 ID:bi0DKYOB

tell us the age difference first

9 Name: Secret Admirer : 2006-12-26 00:17 ID:Heaven

Well, she's 16 and I'm 21. But, don't worry, I've decided to forget about it. If in two years I still haven't found someone legal (which I'm willing to bet on), then I'll go back to her. Hopefully by then she will not have changed drastically.

10 Name: Secret Admirer : 2006-12-26 00:34 ID:wNBL/C4k

>>9
If she's changed drastically in two years, in a way you dislike, then it was damned good that you let her go, as you two would have split up had you gotten together.

11 Name: Secret Admirer : 2006-12-26 04:29 ID:5BjLaHRL

Two years isn't such a bad wait, but if you like her as much as you say be sure to keep in contact even if she finds someone else because so much changes in two years.

12 Name: Secret Admirer : 2006-12-26 05:36 ID:dm/X+Nj4

Where do you live? If you live in Canada, Great Britain, about half of US states, or much of Australia the age of consent is 16. In many other countries it's 14 to 16. It might not be a legal problem, per se.

Take a look at this:

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13 Name: Secret Admirer : 2006-12-26 20:39 ID:bi0DKYOB

That law is to prevent people from taking advantage of younger girls...if you really like her and she likes you, the age difference shouldn't matter, just go for it

14 Name: Secret Admirer : 2006-12-26 22:07 ID:JeGBYuED

>>That law is to prevent people from taking advantage of younger girls...if you really like her and she likes you, the age difference shouldn't matter, just go for it

In court, it's not going to matter how good or bad your intentions are. If you had sex with an underage girl five years younger than you, you're going to get in trouble for it.

15 Name: Secret Admirer : 2006-12-27 04:09 ID:5BjLaHRL

Well, it really does not matter anymore because he said he decided to give up on her.

16 Name: Secret Admirer : 2006-12-27 08:51 ID:bi0DKYOB

>>14

Who's going to get you to court? The girl? (btw I don't live in the USA, so I have no idea about how the legal system works there, just wondering)

17 Name: Secret Admirer : 2006-12-27 10:15 ID:/4+mK31t

>>16
Parents, Teachers, etc.

18 Name: Irrelevant : 2006-12-27 16:04 ID:10v6Ek7x

>>16
The American legal system promotes, to limited degrees, neighborhood watchdog efforts (not to be confused with vigilantes). That is, any interested party is able to note such a thing to authorities if they'd like. Please do not compare this to Big Brother, as there's a huge difference between thoughtcrime and breaking a law. :P

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19 Name: Secret Admirer : 2006-12-28 09:47 ID:i/toluDD

well u r 21 and she is 16,and u like her so much. it doesnt sound any strange to me since a thing like this happens quite often around me. i guess u worry too much

20 Name: Oily Skin : 2006-12-28 12:50 ID:iJI2hVap

Lol my GF is 4 years old and she is a dog, so you dont have any trouble at all man..

21 Name: Secret Admirer : 2006-12-28 15:51 ID:i/toluDD

>>20
well, he wants to have sex with the girl, thats all he worries about. u dont have sex with ur dog unless u have a special interest in ur dogs ass

22 Name: fart man : 2007-01-03 11:46 ID:i/toluDD

dont worry about anything. u just keep her mouth full with ur dick

23 Name: TEENAGER : 2007-01-03 12:48 ID:Heaven

>>22

24 Name: fart man : 2007-01-08 11:55 ID:i/toluDD

>>1
get ur young girl educated with ur huge cock

25 Name: Secret Admirer : 2007-01-09 02:08 ID:GWp1c8xM

>>1 Just keeps being friends with her, don't forget about it. From what you say you seem like you not really know her all that long. You dont go from being friend/acquaintance to gf/bf. But don't act like her older brother, you will lose it then. Speaking of which, are you sure the girl isnt just seeing you as an older brother? Coz just because she talks to you or open up to you doesn't mean she likes you in that way (I know coz I assumed that before and now blessed enlightenment).

26 Name: Secret Admirer : 2007-01-13 17:50 ID:0MR2w223

>>1
it's 15 here where i live. 14 is ok in most cases, but you have to wait until she is 15 before getting married.

it's 16 for girls in japan. 20 for boys.

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27 Name: Friendly Fellow : 2007-01-18 01:12 ID:5tBh5HXW

Talk to her parents, see if they can give you a break eventhough it's against the local law.

But you shouldn't break up with her just because she is too young, you should stay with her.

28 Name: fart man : 2007-01-18 01:24 ID:i/toluDD

dont worry about her age, she wont sue anyway..

29 Name: Secret Admirer : 2007-01-18 06:33 ID:Heaven

>>1 Date the girl, but don't have sex with her. the age difference is really on the edge.

but yea, first of all make sure you know her well. and also... how are you going to date a 16 year old girl. they are so immature that it hurts my eyes...

30 Name: Secret Admirer : 2007-01-18 06:33 ID:Rs+KqFfR

>>1 Date the girl, but don't have sex with her. the age difference is really on the edge.

but yea, first of all make sure you know her well. and also... how are you going to date a 16 year old girl. they are so immature that it hurts my eyes...

31 Name: devildogmre : 2007-01-18 21:55 ID:ntV/vysL

Good luck buddy. You're asking for trouble! She doesn't even know how to be a woman, yet you already see her as one. You won't be able to make her into what you want her to be. Find a woman!!! Please. Don't throw your career, reputation, family, etc. down the drain for her.

32 Name: Secret Admirer : 2007-01-18 23:52 ID:RnBDz7x/

GO FOR IT. That you are the only one she has opened up to pretty much tells the story.

33 Name: fart man : 2007-01-19 00:03 ID:i/toluDD

u can have sex with her. and ditch her if u didnt like her. the only problem here is her age, but she will not sue u or anything, unless u rape her.

my advice is that u be careful with her parents. shes only 16. and parents hate guys who r mature, in terms of their age, and "seduce"(even though their daughters raped guys, theyd take it this way)their little daughter.

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34 Name: Secret Admirer : 2007-01-19 10:24 ID:ocW3k2UD

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I'd say that if she's in love with you, go for it since you obviously are in love with her.

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35 Name: Secret Admirer : 2007-01-19 10:27 ID:ocW3k2UD

Also, it probably depends on where you live. And in what way she's 16. I'd say that 16 could mean both a very grown-up mentality and some bad infantility. So yeah, again, being friends with her would be nice to determine.

And also, you're on completely different points in your life (supposedly), so that might cause problems. You'd know best. I mean, you'd be the one with the money and the job, which would make her dependent on you. And such things suck, I mean, she'd want a life too. So don't you get stuck in that kind of mess.

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36 Name: Secret Admirer : 2007-01-20 12:26 ID:Heaven

>she'd want a life too

If that happens, just walk away man, that woman will not able to be happy anywhere. She'll join the 30 something "empowered" single women army that is out there. And they are not happy.

37 Name: !2dC8hbcvNA : 2007-04-14 13:45 ID:Heaven

>>36
Wow how mean. I know a bunch of those women and they are hot.

38 Name: ND : 2007-07-23 01:10 ID:GLJFATlI

It's not like the sex police are going to jump in at you. But I'd like to warn you that if the parents of either party disapproves....