Well, here's my problem: My girlfriend (let's call her C) has a friend (let's call her K) that I hate. And I hate 'K' because she doesn't seem to care about my 'C'. She'll call her up once every three months and try to pull her out to a rave (which they both know I don't want 'C' to go to).
You said 'K' calls up 'C' every 3 months right? Let it happen, your relationship is already made. You also mention 'C' has known 'K' for 6 years now? Cool down, let 'C' hang out with 'K'. Don't ler choose between a friend and a boyfriend. It'll never work out. I'd say if you're having issues now, you're probably not ready for a relationship. Sorry.
If you're really sincere about 'C', I would say try to understand her more and focus less about bringing up your concerns about 'K'.
Er, I should've elaborated about K. I don't hate her just to hate her, I hate her because she keeps trying to drag C to drug-heavy raves, and C is... well, not the most cautious of persons. If she was offered X or something, she'd try it without asking what it was, first.
Is X another person, or a drug? :P
But, seriously - harmful friends are never good for a person, but it's still their decision to make. Have you spoken about the danger with C? Does she think there is no danger, or does she agree with you and promise to be cautious?
X = ecstasy
If your girl is that dumb, then maybe you should move on to another girl.
>>Also, don't suggest me going with them, because 'K' hates me as much as I hate her, so that won't work. x_X
How does that "not work"? You wouldn't be going because you wanted to hang out and have fun with K, so her feelings towards you shouldn't matter.
I think you should rape K andt then burn her stinking ass! and you should get violent towards C beat her/him until he/She leaves you and take there life.
well, that all depends on how clean Ks ass is. u dont want ur dick with a lot of shit on it when u pull it out. so, before doing that, uve got to make sure her ass is clean enough to do so.
hmm.. this one is tough then... I'm of the position that you shouldn't force the decision upon 'C' because the relationship might turn confrontational and one-sided. Instead I think you should have a serious talk with her to understand her more, why she's prone to do those things and well just get to know her better. You can slip in your perspective about raves and drug usage, but the decision should still be up to her. Personally I went to a rave before and I think it was an enjoyable experience. I like the atmosphere and the open socialness. I was surprised to find some folks who thought like me, going there to chat with new people and just have fun but without the drugs.