in during the prologue of Red Dragon/Silence of the Lambs or something. [Not Hannibal, but rather like the dude from RED DRAGON]
But in all seriousness, cast away your beliefs and just fucking go for it. Take a jump into change and the rest will go naturally.
Because this IMMA CHARGING MY CONFIDENCE is simply bullshit, you are simply stalling yourself D: (Oh I know)
Also stop fucking spamming the threads with your hopes getting some tits and ass. First get a girl.