I met the one I love a month and a half ago. I had the option of him or an ex who I loved for 5 years, I chose him because I realized that I loved him more than anything in the whole world! ^^ He posted here a month ago and said we're getting married, well we are! ^^
Wow, you met him once and you're getting married? Godspeed I guess.
I'm really happy for you!
I met the girl I love just recently.
A month is a bit too soon, I think you should give it a bit more time. So you can get past that initial love stage and see if you two can really work it out.
Don't get married this soon, seriously. A month is not even long enough for the twangs in your stomach to settle down. Give it time, or six months from now you may find you made a huge mistake.
Are you still even physically together or did you just meet for a day or two? Your relationship is going to change and evolve a lot when it becomes short-distance. You should really wait a while before even considering the marriage thing. Really, what's the rush?
Woah what the fuck? It's a long distance relationship?
Rein yourselves in before you become another addition to the divorce rate statistic. At least see a marriage counsellor before you start planning the wedding.
Good luck on your divorce when it happens!
Why are you all assuming its too soon? there is such a thing as love at first sight. And not once did she mention long distance or anything like that. If you fools have nothing intelligent to say, keep it to yourselves.
No, it's not long distance, we've been seeing each other the past month and a half thank you! :-p He lives 5 min down the road from me when I'm at school, and when I'm not he lives no more than 90 miles away! :-p hehe. We have hung out everyday since then and we will be hanging out every day when school starts back up! ^_^ Hehe.
Here's his post....
"Hello, this is my story of my potentially third love interest in my entire life....
It's nice that you feel a connection here, but 1 1/2 months is WAY too little time to date before marriage. I'd wait at LEAST 6 months. If you can't wait that long, you shouldn't get married in the first place.
Well (the guy half of this relationship here), we're gonna wait till we're done with college, but we know we're gonna marry each other someday, so thats all that matters. We're gonna wait (I've got 2 more years)
Oh, I see. She really should have mentioned that "in 2 years" part!
Even so, you should slow down! What clicked in my mind when I read >>1 was that you had been talking online for a long time and finally met a month and a half ago, not that you only just became acquainted. That's even worse!
Oh thank god you decided to wait. A month and a half is way too soon to even think about marriage, hell I don't even say "I love you" that soon.
How long does she have left? You should wait until she is done with school and then wait a little longer to really see you can live with each other outside of school when you are truely on your own and have real world problems to worry about.
All I can say is: for the majority of you folks, "I find you lack of faith...disturbing." Give them a chance, for all you know it could work. It might be normal for people to wait, but not everyone is the same. Nothing wrong with that.