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In need of some advice... (7)


1 Name: anonymous : 2007-01-09 11:23 ID:6/tXG6U3

k theres this girl who likes me, we'll call her Amy, but I don't have any interest in a relationship with her or anyone else for that matter. This has happened a couple of times in the past and I have usually just ignored their signals and left it at that.

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2 Name: Secret Admirer : 2007-01-09 11:45 ID:Heaven

>>1
O.o Good luck! Sounds as if you'll need it. You could try asking her if she thinks she can still be friends with you, and if she realizes that her self-worth is not reflected by whether or not the object of her desires return those feelings. But, that's sort of rather direct... So, I'm not sure how you'd want to go about it.

3 Name: mae : 2007-01-09 12:18 ID:XbNAQMcF

Oh that is hard. >____<

There are indirect ways of telling her you want to remain as friends. Checking out other girls while she's around, maybe (make-up if you have to) some crush and tell her about it, etc. Basically get the point across that you don't see her as a potential partner but still value her friendship.

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4 Name: Secret Admirer : 2007-01-09 14:17 ID:HqybWkCC

Not interested? You gay or something?!

5 Name: anonymous : 2007-01-09 14:58 ID:6/tXG6U3

>>4
no but I don't feel my life is defined by how many girls I can stick my penis in. Or guys for that matter. It would be a hell of a lot easier if I was gay cos then I could just run the old "I'm gay lol!" excuse

6 Name: Secret Admirer : 2007-01-09 23:38 ID:G2H59Yh6

>>5
Then you'd keep getting the following from guys:
"So, no offense but I don't swing that way.. So, you'd better not check me out or else I'll punch your lights out."
"Don't worry, you're not my type."

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7 Name: Secret Admirer : 2007-01-09 23:54 ID:HqybWkCC

>>5 If some girl is interested in you, it's your luck. I bet many guys here (including myself) would do almost anything to have what you have. I dont think it's everyday the girl is the one who take the initiative to reveal her attraction for a guy. Even if you are not into anything serious, make her your much closer friend, dont ignore her and stuff. Coz one day you may realise how much you could have been with this girl and regret you didnt do anything at all. And I'm talking from experience.