for anyone whos read my other post....ok nvm fuck it. well, so heres the story.i was going out with a guy (lets call him mike)but things didnt work out. but, while i was dating him, i met one of his friends, "tim", and i think he and i were immediately attracted to each other. so, i was talking to mike the other day, and i told him that i think that i might like tim. and then, last night via email, mike told me that tim was going to ask me out today. this sadly did not happen because we didnt see each other at all, so we didnt get a chance to talk to each other. but..well, im not even sure if i want to go out with him! i think i do, but i dont know shit about him, so i guess i would want to get to know him better first. but mike was all, "you owe me" cuz he "convinced" tim to ask me out. what the hell is that supposed to mean???? i dont want to go out with tim if hes only asking me out cuz mike told him to. so i dont really know what im gonna say if tim asks me out tommrow. what should i do?
just go on a date and get to know eachother more. If you end up not liking eachother then thats that... it's not hard.
Tim's motives are questionable, but I don't think Mike or anyone could've convinced Tim to go out with you unless he already liked you. Guys don't do things cause they pity you; most of them wouldn't care enough, and the ones that do wouldn't do it because they care too much.