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1 Name: Secret Admirer : 2007-01-30 19:02 ID:pQCTZ8c8

There is a boy that has a crush on me, but I don't feel that same way. He is really nice and I like him as a friend, but I never saw him in that way. He asked me to be his grad date, I said yes, because I do want to be his grad date. I don't like him, as much as I do, I just can't muster up those feelings. I'm also feeling pressured by friends to date him, they just don't understand that I don't like him back. I've never been liked before, and am really confused, anyone have any advice??

2 Name: Secret Admirer : 2007-01-30 19:14 ID:EBGcRMQv

tell him that you do not like him that way. Don't let your friends pressure you, after all who you date is your decision not theirs

3 Name: Secret Admirer : 2007-01-30 21:08 ID:Heaven

you should have told him no. this is where "not hurting feelings" is a bad thing. he probably now thinks you like him and you are going to set him up for a high fall.

as soon as you can, let him know some how that you dont like him, you could let him know you like someone else, or be blunt and tell him the truth.

4 Name: Secret Admirer : 2007-01-31 06:28 ID:S4EjbiwQ

Go to this grad thing because you already agreed, and if there is more pressure after just tell him how you feel. It will hurt his feelings, but there is no way around it. Give him a good time as his grad date, if you do not share his feelings it will at least make him a little happy.

5 Name: fart man : 2007-01-31 06:49 ID:8gGViD8w

u have to be aware his dick would be standing up hard during the whole date time.

6 Name: Secret Admirer : 2007-02-01 07:02 ID:ncYdZ9aq

Go to his grad thing as a FRIEND ONLY DATE. Say that to his face. Let him know the capacity that you two will be in when on this date. Friends only.

Since you do not like him as a love interest declare that to people who are pressuring you to be in a relationship with him.

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