Since 10th grade, I had a crush on one of my best friends. She, who I'll call B, and I were part of a closely linked group of friends always ate lunch together, so everyone knew everyone. My crush on her was the only thing that I kept secret from the group, exempt for my best friend, who I'll call M. So, nobody in the group knew that I liked B except for M, who's been my best friend since the first day of middle school. Since I am notoriously shy, I have never told B how I feel, even though it's been almost two years since we graduated. But around one year ago, something happened that literally floored me. M confessed his own love for B. Now, me and M have been friends for years, and I know he is serious about his feelings, but I still feel a little betrayed that I told him my feelings for B, but he didn't tell me his. What made this almost unbearable is the fact that she accepted his feelings and they have been dating for the last year.
You should wait until they are officially broken up, even if you feel a little betrayed by your friend. Had you asked her out first, he would probably feel the same as you do now.
i guess u should tell her now. because, u dont exactly know if their relationship really goes nowhere, or though ur perspective is right, u still dont know when they broke up. also, although they break up soon, she may have another boyfriend by then.
First it was B, then it was M, then W decided she wanted part of the action.
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