>People, be less harsh on girl!
No. I do not gender discriminate. I've even sort of been in the girl's situation, not being able to decide on a girl initially. It made all of us hurt, but even though #2 decided it was too much hurt and stayed away for a while, I straightened myself up and came to terms that #1 wasn't a relationship that would work in the long run, and kidding myself would only hurt us more. I left her and after a few months tried to be with #2. It worked, for a while. Now I'm with #3 and have been for four years, and we've pretty much decided to legally get acknowledged as a couple at our five-year anniversary.
>She need time too, to understand own feelings.
Yes. But she doesn't have to fuck up OP while doing that. Giving her some time alone to try to think straight would be good for her.
I always enjoy reading your posts though, FO. They're interesting.