>What FO hear is, girl is also positioning. She like both Op and other guy. If wholly choose for one guy, big chance to lose touch with other person. She wanna know for sure she no cut loose one guy (the other one) only to find out that relation with nr 2 didn't work out after all. This is the game, and FO think girl afraid of losing twice.
No way, the girl can't have it both ways. It would be bloody unfair to OP. Women have rights so do men! We men are not commodities to be weighed and see which one is better.