I've gotten to the point where I only wish to pursue those whom I could see myself with together forever. And there happens to be a single mother who is fairly attractive, smart, loyal, hard working, and most importantly, interested in me. The catch of course is the child, who is 3yrs old, cute (I've seen cuter), extremely blonde (I'm not), and always present. I have actually dated a woman with a child before, but then, I did not even consider serious relationships; I didn't consider her at all period. My friends tell me NO bluntly, especially since I (amazingly) have other options. So then why consider her? Because of her good qualities, that I don't see any many girls today. I mean, I want to say that I am too good not to have a young beautiful wife without child, even a wife who is a virgin. Yet, when something is right in front of you, I feel you must ponder a little right? I just don't want to hurt her by becoming scared down the line.
Got involved with a woman who has a child, met her when she was 6 months pregnant (after 3 fucking miscarriages with her ex or whoever guy it was who fucked her). Crazy. Fucking true love striked me in the face, I became stupid. Now i'm planning to break up with her formally to have a better future (I hope). Still love her though, can't even call her a... Shit!
Don't sign up for the wife if you don't want the child. You should be committed to both. You should feel at home with these people. It sounds like you don't have a very close relationship.
Donovan is a very nice Irish name, derived from the Gaelic "Ó Donnabhain" or, descendant of Donndubhán, which is a composite of the words for 'brown' (donn) and 'dark' (dubh). So it's a fairly, earthy, old, evocative name; nothing to be ashamed of. Of course, just about everyone will end up calling him Don.
i knew a little boy named donovan. I used to babysit him quite often, until he and his mother moved to Cali...
oh god i sound horribly cruel, let me make amends. she is beautiful and too good for me. i am very lucky to even know of her existence. i hope the best for her and if we were meant to be together i will embrace that fate with open arms. her son is beautiful as well. i am very lucky indeed.