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Online role playing & cyber sex (14)

1 Name: keyboard : 2007-02-25 12:40 ID:PE8pgIuR

Does online role playing romance considered an act of cheating on your real life partner?

Is role playing cyber sex considered cheating?

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2 Name: Seduced : 2007-02-25 14:51 ID:k/Ac4sWe

What would you think if your partner did the same thing? I would say that you should atleast tell you boyfriend about it, or atleast try to rp with him ^^

3 Name: Secret Admirer : 2007-02-25 19:30 ID:1IVWyAMo

Ok, I'll tell you a story that happened not to me, but to close friends who happened to live together. They both play MMORPGs, and they even played the same game, on the same server. One day, male friend started RPing with a girl online, romance and stuff. (the RL couple already had 2 of their characters married). When it went as far as (remember, it's a game, roleplay, etc) as marrying one of his characters to one of this girl's, drama ensued. So he ditched the online girl, and everything went back to normal.

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4 Name: Secret Admirer : 2007-02-25 20:53 ID:sN+f8XWq

I play FFXI and there are actually several real bonuses to "getting married" (basically a few good items.) My best friend is even married in-game (for the items.)
I on the other hand choose not to get "married" because I am completely faithful to my girlfriend. The same goes for cybering. If you are faithful, you will not do it.

5 Name: Secret Admirer : 2007-02-26 07:09 ID:ymUmhfjY

Yes. Cybering is considered cheating. You are exchanging love/lust in some kind of form.

6 Name: Secret Admirer : 2007-02-26 13:22 ID:0KjIpPZd

For me it is being unloyal. I wouldn't accept if my boyfriend would do it.

7 Name: densha : 2007-02-26 14:23 ID:ZjHfEGXo

its ok. i've written everything down on BBS.

8 Name: Secret Admirer : 2007-02-27 05:45 ID:l2BgsrWR

Cybering is cheating.

I ceased cybering when I committed to someone.

9 Name: Secret Admirer : 2007-03-11 08:50 ID:LkfcCcf4

Hmm.... I guess I'd have to be monogamous to really weigh in on this.

However, I have this piece of advice: The best person to ask, is not on this forum. (Unless you're boyfriend is on this forum, and if that is the case, and you know it, this post might be passive-aggressive anyhow. I ramble.)

10 Name: Secret Admirer : 2007-03-11 15:25 ID:4mkwyzuf


Let me add to this; Cybering is cheating. IMO, even imagening sex with someone else is cheating.

11 Name: Secret Admirer : 2007-03-12 17:37 ID:dlOrdQRl

For me, roleplaying sex and stuff is okay if you're playing actual characters and all. But if you're cybering and, well, being yourself throughout the thing, then it's cheating... That's how I feel about it.

12 Name: Secret Admirer : 2007-03-13 08:00 ID:Heaven

ITT whatever...

13 Name: Secret Admirer : 2007-03-13 19:15 ID:29rzzSIh

It's only cheating if your signifigant other isn't also joining you in the cybering.

Cybering with some random person online while getting a blowjob or getting laid is great---especially if you two share the keyboard while cybering.

14 Name: Secret Admirer : 2007-03-28 11:08 ID:Heaven

Whether or not it's cheating completely and utterly depends on if you and your partner agreed on that it is or is not.
Some couples have open relationships, some consider emotional relationships cheating but not emotionless sex as cheating. Some consider emotional attachments as not cheating, but count sex as cheating, etc.

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