i'm just a black guy that's passing by, but i'm going to talk about something i have noticed on more than a few occasions. black girls that are into anime/games/etc, are drooling over either a white or asian guy. i don't know if their perception is messed up due to the black guys they have been with or seen, but a black guy like me is already dismissed before they even open their mouth. before you shout bullshit or racism, this has happened to me two times and my friend once. they will not give you a shadow of a doubt because they think all black guys are the same but we're not. i check myspaces of black girls who are into that kind of stuff, they are either with white/asian guys, and a lot of them even say they don't like "black guys." go ahead, check, im not making this shit up. all im saying is, is that its bullshit that most of the time things are like that. before u claim im ugly or have a bad personality i dont. im 18 and ive had two black girlfriends in the past but they were short term. i look to find some girls with my interests and i see some fucked up racist things. im not saying they have to like me but its the fact that before i even say anything they think im full of shit and like most blakc guys without a shadow of a doubt. im just ranting because im tired of holding it in and need to get it off my chest. im sorry if i offended anyone but im just saying what i observed.
It's not really a racist thing, but rather that they're interested in another culture and perhaps dislike their own. I can relate.
Why is it just because two people like anime and they are both black that they suddenly have this special connection and they have to be together? There are people I have a lot in common with but I can't stand to even be around them, both black and white.
Racial issues aside, I'm sure you guys realize that a relationship based on mutual interest in anime will probably not work very well and you'll end up with a broken heart. It happened to me. But then I found my fiance, who doesn't really care about anime but loves me enough to try some of it.
I'm a black girl and... eheh. I do have preference for white men, actually. (specificly the more geeky looking ones) Perhaps this could be because I've grown up in a black neighborhood that I rather dislike coming home to. I dunno. I've always been very picky with men, and I'm not really attracted to other black people. I really haven't had a chance to date another black person, but if I found one that I really fell for, I wouldn't push them aside because of their race. I'd try.
dunno what to tell you man. chances are the girls just like what they like. it's probably not that they are black, but rather that they're into anime. most of my female friends who are into anime prefer asian or white guys, just because.
actually, i have this black female friend who, i'll be honest, was into me even though i am the typical nerdy white anime-loser. however, i already have a girlfriend (an asian girl...) when i graduated and went to college i came back and found out that she was dating one of my friends, who is a black guy and also into anime. so it works out.
usually girls from one race droll over guys from another race. I'm middle eastern and can relate.
Give me a break bitch. There's no way you can draw those assumptions based on race. To the person that started this topic, stop whining because you can't get a girl. You shouldn't cry because some girl wouldn't look at you because you're blacker than a black crayon. Why would you want to be with someone in that mindset.
>>8 Why don't you quit drawing assumptions yourself. Black females who only prefer non-black men are not all delusional, insecure, and hideous. So what if we don't date black men? We like what we like. I didn't even say all black men were a certain way, I was speaking from my own personal experiences with black men and that that I felt that white men or at least those that I have met were more together. Not all of them of course, I mean look at you.
ITT: WE STEP ON EVERYONE'S TOES.
So liek I herd Indians have it the worst.