Actually, the girl whom I have a crush on is extremely outgoing. In fact, the first time she ever talked to me was way back in 8th grade gym class when she randomly came up to me and made up an odd secret handshake. I was immediately infatuated by her cuteness and outgoingness. I, on the other hand, was very shy at the time because I was afraid I'd annoy people by talking to them, my own little complex that formed because I had ADHD and was very annoying in the years before that.
Now I'd just consider me one of her friends.... out of the, oh, 200 she has.
Yes, dealing with a crush on a girl who's very nice and popular is hard. Sometimes I wish the Disney-esque pseudoreality stereotype that popular kids are all mean was true. Unfortunately, that's hardly ever the case =/