>chatting is the sure way to have yourself emotionally attached to the woman too fast.
Because you can't see her face, and so you don't have a constant feeling of wanting to jump on her.
How about you guys take this as an weak phase ? Because you know... It's like you are running away from commitment because you can be hurt, it's ok to be like that, just don't start to think to much about it!
Love is there for everyone, even for those who lost faith in it for various reasons! I know some people that had some serious issues like the ones talked about here (with bigger reasons for it but whatever), and right now they are living happily yet again.
That's the way life goes !