lately, I've been feeling poorly on the whole dating thing. Not because I'm afraid to be rejected (although that may be a root cause), but instead, even if I'm friends with a girl, even if she's really attractive, I can't imagine wanting to go out with her. Anyone else feel like that? I've never had a positive experience with any girl, and I'm more just sick of it. I can't comprehend a girl actually ASKING me to do something, let along talk to me in any way other than just a friendly acquaintance sort of way, but if that did happen I can't conceive of a possible situation in which I would be happy being with any girl. I'm just wondering if anyone else has ever been like this.
>chatting is the sure way to have yourself emotionally attached to the woman too fast.
Because you can't see her face, and so you don't have a constant feeling of wanting to jump on her.
You guys keep saying "that's how women are," but women are pretty tired of "how men are," too.
Not caring about being in a relationship isn't a bad thing. At least it's better than not being able to stay single for at least a week or something like that. Issues, much?
I just can't imagine a realistic situation where I would meet a girl and enjoy myself.
you could always experiment with a relative like your mother.
I'm mostly the same way, though I've never even been friends with a girl.
>I know I'm not gay. I once followed the lines of reasoning expressed by some in this thread and concluded that if I am not attracted to girls, I must be attracted to men.
> The only girls I've ever felt attracted to are creations of ink and paint (or pixels and phosphors), not flesh and blood.