Okay, let's start with me: I'm a 21 year-old guy that smokes copious amounts of weed, am a former addict of hard drugs, listens to horrific music that sounds like a cat being ripped up alive in a blender while synthesizers blare in the background (or slow, gloomy, ambient Electro-Goth music), am militantly Atheist & Marxist, has had sex with more individuals than I really should have, and I often wear a Sigil of Baphomet [upside down pentagram with goat's head in it] pendant proudly around my neck. Not THAT crazy of a dude, but... I've been around the block.
My cousin's a goody-goody who's dating a guy who is quite fond of acid and Xanax, amongst other things. She says she likes him because she feels a need to take care of him.
I don't know if this applies to those girls you've been attracting, but it's something to think upon, I suppose!
Has a point. I think it's more a maternal thing than anything else. Your feminist attitude might be part of it as well. just because the acid thing defines you to yourself it might not be what they see in you. they probably either want to help you get your shit together or like your attitudes towards things. You'd be suprised at how similar some of those goody-good girl attitues are to those of a militant marxist.
do you listen to experimental grindcore or something
the girls that seem to be attracted to you are deserved by guys who are much better than you, and much more pitiful. they need the love, you apparently do not. please, just blow the girls off and leave them open for the goody-goody guys.
>And THEN there's the girls that are attracted to me. Most of the girls that I end up with are usually veeeery cute, intelligent, and funny, with some common interests, but they're also usually very shy, awkward, get straight A's, never have drank/smoked, play some kinda instrument or sport and play it very well, and have been a bit sheltered...
... Oh please OP, don't make me laugh !
Honestly, want a bad ass chick ? Since you are so bad ass ... Stop watching anime and going to Channel 4, in the Internet most girls you find are SUBMISSIVE.
And who are you to make that decision? If a girl doesn't think she deserves better, it's her problem, not yours. I would never want to have anything to do with those girls who have so low self-esteem that they pursue drug-addicts...no matter how good grades (, etc.) they have.
I can make that decision because I am a clear-thinking individual who is stating the obvious.
I am calling the OP on being a hypocrite. He likes the attention these girls give and IF (that's a big if) he isn't lying and is not really just as desperate as everyone else for a little affection, he would have just ignored these girls form the start.
Haha, oh wow.
OP, give me your life.
I'm stuck with god-awful bitchy/annoying/screechy girls who think they're all bestest pals with me (And constantly talking about each other's backs to me, even when I'm not so much giving them a hint that I don't care as much as bluntly telling them I don't give a shit), just because they've smoked weed with me once or twice, and think I'm some kind of amazing person because I dress euro-style, like to read books and discuss philosophy, art, and politics.