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The Idea of You (6)


1 Name: Secret Admirer : 2007-04-10 23:26 ID:fADXv/ON

What does that mean when someone says "You don't love me, you just love the idea of me."?

2 Name: Secret Admirer : 2007-04-10 23:50 ID:o6TpuUJt

That you are in love with the way you imagine a person to be rather than the actual person?

3 Name: Secret Admirer : 2007-04-11 00:42 ID:Heaven

but i poop from there...
not right now you dont

4 Name: Secret Admirer : 2007-04-11 01:46 ID:/t/aqO5O

>>2

yes, basically the 'idea' of someone is what you think she is, due to looks or attitude.

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5 Name: Secret Admirer : 2007-04-11 04:47 ID:RtonVQxT

>>1 it either mean i don't want to have romantic relationship with you, or, you idealize my character and do not know the real me, I'm not the girl/guy you seek and I am not comfortable to show my real self.
Probably something like that, is it womanies or english?

6 Name: Secret Admirer : 2007-04-11 05:17 ID:Heaven

>>1
It's a standard break-up excuse, and used to brush someone off or break up a relationship without giving a real reason.
She (sounds like something a woman would say) could just be trying to let you down easily, meaning she most likely doesn't hate you (a good thing).

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