What does that mean when someone says "You don't love me, you just love the idea of me."?
That you are in love with the way you imagine a person to be rather than the actual person?
yes, basically the 'idea' of someone is what you think she is, due to looks or attitude.
>>1 it either mean i don't want to have romantic relationship with you, or, you idealize my character and do not know the real me, I'm not the girl/guy you seek and I am not comfortable to show my real self.
Probably something like that, is it womanies or english?
It's a standard break-up excuse, and used to brush someone off or break up a relationship without giving a real reason.
She (sounds like something a woman would say) could just be trying to let you down easily, meaning she most likely doesn't hate you (a good thing).