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What to talk about on a first date (16)


1 Name: Secret Admirer : 2007-04-21 03:44 ID:NEFDnV/n

List some suggestions

2 Name: Secret Admirer : 2007-04-21 03:52 ID:ToYhtD1y

just distinguish from anything thats inappropriate and appropriate and youll do fine.

dont talk about work or anything that frustrates or miffs you. just be calm and get comfortable with the person.

3 Name: Secret Admirer : 2007-04-21 04:44 ID:uN9S++H2

not yourself

4 Name: Secret Admirer : 2007-04-21 07:46 ID:Heaven

>>1

do you have a date?

5 Name: Secret Admirer : 2007-04-21 11:49 ID:4vXAVnIL

Talk about whatever you usually do. Why the fuck should you act like someone else? It will only lead to more bullshit down the road. Be yourself, and if that isn't good enough, then fuck them. You're better off without them in that case.

6 Name: Secret Admirer : 2007-04-21 17:30 ID:NEFDnV/n

Yeah but sometimes I just don't know what to talk about. Like a long dead silence. Like for real help me.

7 Name: Secret Admirer : 2007-04-21 21:06 ID:5q60RK/W

well im guessing its a first date - so be sure to go somewhere with lots of different stuff going on, so if you find an uncomfortable silence you can look around and go "hey look at that!/jeez, look at that guys belly!/that dog has a puffy tail!" etc

8 Name: Secret Admirer : 2007-04-21 21:13 ID:uN9S++H2

your greatest resource is her. talk about her. women love that

9 Name: Secret Admirer : 2007-04-21 22:26 ID:NEFDnV/n

like if you go to dinner with her, or in the car, i can't talk about her the whole time. what should i do?

10 Name: Secret Admirer : 2007-04-22 02:38 ID:8oKkDbPK

First of all, just relax. If you think about an awkward silence when it happens, it will just make you feel more tense and thus even more unable to come up with things to talk about. Finding a common interest really helps. Movies, music, sports, there must be at least one thing that you two have in common. Find it and talk about it! But maybe even more importantly, find about stuff she likes and talk about that.

11 Name: Secret Admirer : 2007-04-22 09:17 ID:4tzSVRDR

Listen to me for a minute. Lend me your ear.

What is a date? Time spent with a girl/guy you are willing to give a chance.

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12 Name: Secret Admirer : 2007-04-24 14:01 ID:WdaI7ql4

>>8
That is so true.

13 Name: Secret Admirer : 2007-04-24 14:06 ID:WdaI7ql4

Disregard >>11. Purely because of his opening line.

14 Name: Secret Admirer : 2007-04-24 19:05 ID:uN9S++H2

>>11
Now this is the story all about how
My life got flipped, turned upside down
And Id like to take a minute just sit right there

15 Name: serraphus : 2007-04-24 19:58 ID:8Lb0/FUb

i just like to front and play around, but when it get serious...unleash

16 Name: Secret Admirer : 2007-04-24 22:39 ID:4tzSVRDR

>>13>>14

lol