we broke up over 3 years ago.
i haven't seen her in 2.
no idea but i'm in a similar situation so you are, at least, not alone
... Honestly, OP? I... sort of want you two to get together. It sorta hurts reading something like this.
Hooooly cow. I so know how you feel. I'm still the same way with my ex- we broke up 3 years ago, but nowadays we are in the exact same situation as you two are. We realized about a year ago that we still have intense feelings for each other, and it's...
>>3 I've told the story too many times already. Let's instead try and focus on finding a solution.
to be honest, i have conflicting feelings. 40% of me feels betrayed over what we were separated over to begin with, but the rest wants her like no other.
the next time i saw her, it was when i was leaving for another country. i wanted to say my last good bye to her, and spent the whole afternoon with her. to sum it up, we went out, we went home, i kissed her, told her i still wanted her, she didn't say anything, and i said good bye. i didn't cry.
hmm well certainly that's where I see myself ending up. I'm trying my damnest not to end up that way but...
eh, you shouldn't feel the way i should.
i just THINK i should get over her, and i don't think you feel that way. if you have the chance, take him/her back. don't let it just consume you. don't regret something you didn't do.
it's been years already and I honestly would be hesitant to get into a relationship (not like I get any chances anyways) because it just wouldn't be right knowing i'd leave whoever i'd be with for her in a heartbeat.
we're in the same boat kinda.
i waited 2 years until i had another relationship and i can say i got another perspective on my whole situation.
i guess you can call it a good thing. i can't explain why i want her, but i can rationalize whether its a bad decision or not. and right now it's looking like it's not a bad one.
All of your stories are exactly what I am afraid of is going to happen to me, We were together for 3 years and lived together for 1 1/2. It's only been a month, but she has done some really cold and hurtful things to me in that time, but still claims she loves me. Despite all that she has done, I can't let her go, even though the logical part of me says to cut her out. I am afraid she will always be in the back of my heart affecting every relationship I have from here on out. I am also afraid, that I will never have a physical relationship like I had with her.
thats the mistake your making.
of course your never going to have a relationship like you did with her(EVERYONE is different), but you cannot make the mistake of condemning yourself to never having one OR living in the shadow of one. honestly, you´ll meet someone else that will captivate you(for at LEAST a while) and you´ll forget about her(....for at LEAST a while).
I don't want to live in the shadow of wanting this girl but knowing that i shouldn't logically and feeling it are two different things. I don't know if that makes sense...
Why do posts keep getting deleted? I don't think they contained any foul language.
Either troll or spam. Lots of immaturity on these boards recently.