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getting over her/him (25)

1 Name: Secret Admirer : 2007-04-21 04:11 ID:IebafJTe

we broke up over 3 years ago.

i haven't seen her in 2.

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2 Name: Secret Admirer : 2007-04-21 04:43 ID:Heaven

no idea but i'm in a similar situation so you are, at least, not alone

3 Name: Secret Admirer : 2007-04-22 02:16 ID:IebafJTe


tell me about yours, im curious.

4 Name: Secret Admirer : 2007-04-22 08:36 ID:ik/dDkR/

... Honestly, OP? I... sort of want you two to get together. It sorta hurts reading something like this.

5 Name: Severin : 2007-04-22 14:36 ID:HGYV9fN+

Hooooly cow. I so know how you feel. I'm still the same way with my ex- we broke up 3 years ago, but nowadays we are in the exact same situation as you two are. We realized about a year ago that we still have intense feelings for each other, and it's...

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6 Name: Secret Admirer : 2007-04-22 16:08 ID:6nyvoi3n

>>3 I've told the story too many times already. Let's instead try and focus on finding a solution.

7 Name: Secret Admirer : 2007-04-23 00:40 ID:IebafJTe


to be honest, i have conflicting feelings. 40% of me feels betrayed over what we were separated over to begin with, but the rest wants her like no other.

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8 Name: Secret Admirer : 2007-04-23 01:01 ID:IebafJTe


the next time i saw her, it was when i was leaving for another country. i wanted to say my last good bye to her, and spent the whole afternoon with her. to sum it up, we went out, we went home, i kissed her, told her i still wanted her, she didn't say anything, and i said good bye. i didn't cry.

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9 Name: Secret Admirer : 2007-04-23 03:40 ID:6nyvoi3n

hmm well certainly that's where I see myself ending up. I'm trying my damnest not to end up that way but...

10 Name: Secret Admirer : 2007-04-24 04:22 ID:IebafJTe

eh, you shouldn't feel the way i should.

i just THINK i should get over her, and i don't think you feel that way. if you have the chance, take him/her back. don't let it just consume you. don't regret something you didn't do.

11 Name: Secret Admirer : 2007-04-24 09:31 ID:6nyvoi3n

it's been years already and I honestly would be hesitant to get into a relationship (not like I get any chances anyways) because it just wouldn't be right knowing i'd leave whoever i'd be with for her in a heartbeat.

12 Name: Secret Admirer : 2007-04-25 01:02 ID:IebafJTe

we're in the same boat kinda.

i waited 2 years until i had another relationship and i can say i got another perspective on my whole situation.

13 Name: Secret Admirer : 2007-04-25 06:39 ID:6nyvoi3n

is that a good thing or bad thing?

14 Name: Secret Admirer : 2007-04-26 23:20 ID:K/Ok197O


i guess you can call it a good thing. i can't explain why i want her, but i can rationalize whether its a bad decision or not. and right now it's looking like it's not a bad one.

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15 Name: uh1pilot : 2007-05-04 15:19 ID:AuswZI/K

All of your stories are exactly what I am afraid of is going to happen to me, We were together for 3 years and lived together for 1 1/2. It's only been a month, but she has done some really cold and hurtful things to me in that time, but still claims she loves me. Despite all that she has done, I can't let her go, even though the logical part of me says to cut her out. I am afraid she will always be in the back of my heart affecting every relationship I have from here on out. I am also afraid, that I will never have a physical relationship like I had with her.

16 Name: Secret Admirer : 2007-05-08 04:34 ID:87wr72Pw

thats the mistake your making.

of course your never going to have a relationship like you did with her(EVERYONE is different), but you cannot make the mistake of condemning yourself to never having one OR living in the shadow of one. honestly, you´ll meet someone else that will captivate you(for at LEAST a while) and you´ll forget about her(....for at LEAST a while).

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20 Name: Secret Admirer : 2007-05-08 17:46 ID:6nyvoi3n

I don't want to live in the shadow of wanting this girl but knowing that i shouldn't logically and feeling it are two different things. I don't know if that makes sense...

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22 Name: Secret Admirer : 2007-05-09 21:05 ID:9eXGbZTM

Why do posts keep getting deleted? I don't think they contained any foul language.

23 Name: Secret Admirer : 2007-05-10 01:31 ID:Heaven

Either troll or spam. Lots of immaturity on these boards recently.

24 Name: Secret Admirer : 2007-05-10 16:48 ID:4Oc9STP1


25 Name: Secret Admirer : 2007-05-10 16:50 ID:87wr72Pw


that makes perfect sense.

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