we broke up over 3 years ago.
i haven't seen her in 2.
i moved to a different country.
and i still can't seem to get her out of my mind, and neither can she. we've both been with other people, have had sex with other people, have had much longer relationships, have met more fulfilling people, and have been out of contact with each other for months at a time, but something still makes me yearn for her.
i have honestly tried to just quit thinking about her and just cutting her out of my life, to no avail.
at this moment, i can say she really wont amount to anything compared to the woman im with now, but deep down if both of them were at my front door, i'd choose her over the other woman.
i can't distinguish if its love or obsession.
so, to sum it up;
how do i get rid of this desire to be with her?