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How do I approach a girl? (13)


1 Name: Secret Admirer : 2007-04-24 20:08 ID:LgrlWSn2

I am 18 and very interested in a girl at uni. How do I approach her? What should I say?

2 Name: Secret Admirer : 2007-04-24 22:37 ID:DFrAthp5

Just say hi.

Yea, it's that simple. Look at what she's doing, If she's reading a book, talk about the book. Get a little interested in the book and see if she reads books often and what kind?

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3 Name: Secret Admirer : 2007-04-25 22:10 ID:55mASHFL

>>1OR if you already know her (like you speak with her in class, or you both run in similar circles of friends, etc.), you can always strike up a conversation about what you're planning on doing for the weekend, and ask her to join you for a movie.

4 Name: Secret Admirer : 2007-04-25 22:27 ID:QKi4fZgk

there's many threads in the archives about approaching and talking to people, you can read those as well.

5 Name: Secret Admirer : 2007-04-26 00:08 ID:XmtGqyqn

>>2
Not the OP here, but am I the only one who thinks that's weird? I get weirded out when people I don't know randomly start talking to me, and I can't help but think if I tried to do that to a girl, her reaction would be along the lines of "I can't believe this guy I don't even know is hitting on me."

6 Name: Secret Admirer : 2007-04-26 16:14 ID:IZP+0iZy

>>5

yes it is sort of weird, id be a bit thrown if somebody came up to me and randomly chatted. but its different for girls, if you go up to them and chat it shows your confident enough in yourself to go up to random people and talk to them like friends. and confidence is hot.

7 Name: かやしゅ : 2007-04-26 16:22 ID:A+EzLHY5

>>6 That may be so, but being overly confident and talking to her like you want to know everything (or in some cases, like you've known her for ages) might throw her into confusion to an extent she'll just be scared of her pre-assumed intentions of you.

8 Name: Secret Admirer : 2007-04-26 19:40 ID:IZP+0iZy

>>7
good point, yeah >>1 dont be too "interested" in her. i thought the idea about the book was a good one, because you can just start a discussion about the book, recommend her some books, have her recommend you some, maybe even lend her one etc rather than going up and asking for her life story.

9 Name: Secret Admirer : 2007-04-27 02:54 ID:DFrAthp5

>>5 I can understand where you are coming from. I think it's more of a culture thing, You know, Like It's different in certain cities and such. I'm from the city, and people coming up and talking to you out of nowhere, is often times weird. Since I've moved to the country though, It's pretty much the norm, people do it all the time. It's actually quite weird, but I'm getting more and more used to it.

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10 Name: Shizuki-san : 2007-05-01 01:07 ID:Zfp/RetE

Just be cool and act casual. She'll lose intrest if you make a boring conversation, so while talking to her make wise choices in answers and comments. :3

11 Name: anus butthole of destruction : 2007-05-02 20:33 ID:qBz+H/1n

give her an alabama hot pocket and combo it with a dirty sanchez...then take a dump on her face!

12 Name: crusty vagina of displeasure : 2007-05-02 20:34 ID:qBz+H/1n

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13 Name: man nympho : 2007-05-08 22:40 ID:l1MBb33m

for narnia