>>9 Well, neither should you expect anything. Internet is like that, and frankly, I don't think internet should be considered a reliable source for meeting your soulmate/partner.
Although anyone can name a few examples how it could go right, it still shouldn't be considered a reliable way.
Usually, people are very different on the net than they are in real life, and that does throw you into confusion. Best to avoid
these things altogether.
Who knows? You might run into some kind of serial killer. ┐('～`；)┌