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My brother just confessed to me that he's in love with me, what do i do? (140)

1 Name: Secret Admirer : 2007-05-01 04:14 ID:v+1s0KIV

My brother confessed to me yesturday that he has been in love with me romantically all throughout highschool (He's a senior right now and i'm a junior). This was a shock to me because, well obviously, he's my brother. It kind of makes me feel all dirty that he loves me in that way even though i never did anything to make him love me except be a really good sister to him. I really love him, as a brother, so i don't know what to do. He's been a really good brother, very protective of me, kind of extremely so (now that i think about it maybe i'm mistaking his protectiveness towards me whenever guys are involved with jealousy). I basically told my brother that i was shocked and that i didn't know what to say to him. He told me i didn't have to say anything and that he doesn't expect me to love him like that in return. So i don't know. What should i do because i don't want things to be awkward for us, even though he reassured me that it wouldn't. It's not like a crush either but he says he's in love with me. He's rejected a lot of girls throughout highschool and now i learn that it's because of me! I dont' know how to act around him now, do i just act like nothing has happened or do i address the issue and tell him nothing can come of this because he's my brother? The thing is, if he wasn't my brother i would date him because he's really handsome and he cares for me a lot and would make the perfect boyfriend i think.

2 Name: Secret Admirer : 2007-05-01 07:26 ID:+s9x9DuO

He was brave enough to come out and tell you this, the least you could do is go out to dinner with him,
We still live at a day and age where incest is looked down at, I would keep it on the down low.

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3 Name: Secret Admirer : 2007-05-01 08:09 ID:og+5eZZP

Acting as if nothing happened gives no consequences to his actions. Maybe he might not have expected reciprocation, but confessing is like he was hoping for it. I think you need to address the issue with him.

It seems his confession has confused you about what your relationship should or can be. Uncertainty about your feelings will only perpetuate this awkward situation.

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4 Name: Kira : 2007-05-01 09:00 ID:h25xLEFe

Well if you feel that it's wrong then just tell him carefully... And tell him that you'll love him just as her sister or something like that. Hope you find your way for this.

5 Name: 映画男 : 2007-05-01 12:49 ID:SXR1W8Pz

i agree with >>4 tell him how you truelly feel, as your brother i'm sure he'll understand. good luck!

6 Name: Secret Admirer : 2007-05-01 16:57 ID:+90eMcBE

If there is no way around the brother/sister aspect of this, then tell him so. Let him down gently, otherwise you may help destroy whatever relationship you had before.

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7 Name: Secret Admirer : 2007-05-01 18:59 ID:bXmck54t

Yeah. All this brother/sister incest is really hot on hentai and all, but in real life, it turns into utterly gross D:
Not that I mind.

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8 Name: Secret Admirer : 2007-05-01 19:38 ID:KzvuSXgh

Well if he truly loves you, and so long as you're sure of that and know him enough to know he doesn't have any ill-intentions, then he won't want to (intentonally) do anything that would make you uncomfortable. Remember also, if you love him as a sister then you've also got to respect his feelings, don't do anything you don't want to do but at the same time understand that this must be a difficult thing for him.

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9 Name: Shizuki-san : 2007-05-02 01:08 ID:U4xPtngu

I agree with >>8. Just dont let him use you and make sure you really love him and he loves you. Dont make it very obvious either, so no rumors will be spread about you. :3 It sounds like he really likes you so I'd go for it. =D Good luck!

10 Name: Secret Admirer : 2007-05-02 02:40 ID:zbPDqdeE

play by his game, tell him you are not interested in him like that, but he is still your precious friend and brother instead of telling him you are his sister (he already knows that and chose to ignore it).

11 Name: Secret Admirer : 2007-05-02 04:52 ID:+90eMcBE


You sound like you're undecided about this. On one hand, he's your brother--a guy you probably took baths with as a young child.

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12 Name: thread poster : 2007-05-02 08:01 ID:v+1s0KIV

Thank you so much you guys for the advice. I really appreciate it because i really do need advice right now and i absolutely cannot talk to anyone i know about this! I'm actually very surprised that a lot of you suggested that i give my brother a chance. To tell you the truth i was expecting to see a lot of "ewww, that's gross" or "that's really wrong" comments.

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13 Name: 映画男 : 2007-05-02 11:09 ID:SXR1W8Pz

>>12 people who go "eeww thats gross" is just being plain immature i must say lol.

unless ur intro secret love, i reckon ur doing the right choice. Always think before u take actio, think further ahead so u dont regret anything u did ^_______^

14 Name: Secret Admirer : 2007-05-02 13:56 ID:5wtsb29a

I'm actually surprised at the number of gullible and serious responses to this thread.

15 Name: For All Needs : 2007-05-02 14:55 ID:tEW/tvug

This is obviously a fake post (-.-)~~~~~ Most of the people who responded with, give it a try, are trying to be preverted and want to imagine it actually happening. I have no biased if this post was actually real but, its not (~.~) well there's always a possiblity that it is real. There is no way it can be disproven. Oh well Then good luck, I'll be keeping an eye. :/

16 Name: anus butthole of destruction : 2007-05-02 20:48 ID:5cCXQeQA

i once dreamt that i had 2 penises. Therefore I assumed one was for sexxing while one was for pissing. I decided to test this theory by fucking to wommen in the ass simontaneously. I was happily mistaken

17 Name: crusty vagina of displeasure : 2007-05-02 20:53 ID:5cCXQeQA

i once dreamt that i had 2 penises. Therefore I assumed one was for sexxing while one was for pissing. I decided to test this theory by fucking to wommen in the ass simontaneously. I was happily mistaken

18 Name: Secret Admirer : 2007-05-03 06:05 ID:v+1s0KIV

Okay, why would you think this is fake?? I don't have the time to go around posting about fake problems! But whatever, i'll just try to figure this out by myself.

19 Name: Secret Admirer : 2007-05-03 12:59 ID:Heaven

>>14 >>15

Well it might not be fake - there are stranger things in life that I think this thread is not so unbelievable. Anonymous boards won't work if people don't have a little faith.

20 Name: For All Needs : 2007-05-03 16:07 ID:tEW/tvug

~~~I have no biased if this post was actually real but, its not (~.~) well there's always a possiblity that it is real. There is no way it can be disproven.~~~ Is what I've stated earlier. I've read it over and I'll give u the benefit of the doubt. Its just hard to believe in this after so many have done te same post b4 and they were proven to be farse.

21 Name: Secret Admirer : 2007-05-03 18:45 ID:v+1s0KIV


Oh, sorry. I didn't know that a lot of people have posted fake posts about the same problem. I guess if that were the case, i wouldn't believe in my post either. I guess incest is so taboo that people think it's funny to post about it or something but believe me, i'm totally serious.

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22 Name: For All Needs : 2007-05-03 20:36 ID:tEW/tvug

Well I think thats for the best for now. In the future if he ever brings it up again, just tell him that whats in the past is in the past. If you still choose to love me then good, but I will continue loving you the same way I have been. As my cool older brother! or something cheesy like that. I think all in all that will break him from the spell and help you guys mend that broken chain in your relationship. Incest is cool in some animes and hentai, but this is real life, we are in a generation of social vulnerbility. Just do as I said and all will be fine.

23 Name: Secret Admirer : 2007-05-04 00:26 ID:v+1s0KIV

>>22 Thanks so much. That's exactly what i plan to do. Getting together with him would be exciting and fun at first but i have to think realistically. It's going to be hard though because i think i have a crush on him now, but I'm sure it'll pass with time. In the meanwhile we're still really close siblings and i would never do anything to jeopardize that relationship between us.

24 Name: Secret Admirer : 2007-05-04 04:43 ID:Heaven


How the fuck did you manage to get a crush on him anyway?

25 Name: For All Needs : 2007-05-04 05:43 ID:8CDVHkkK

Well crushes are normal between family members. It's the same exact thing as being a little girl or boy and wanting to marry your mom or dad. It's nothing to worry about. You are just confused because of the words your brother said to you. This has thrown you for a loop. So just give it time and take my advice above. You want to stay the furthest away from actually loving him as a lover as u possibly can.

26 Name: Secret Admirer : 2007-05-04 09:03 ID:Lpqjh0mC

>Well crushes are normal between family members.

You either have no siblings or need to meet more girls.

27 Name: For All Needs : 2007-05-04 09:23 ID:8CDVHkkK

You took it the wrong way -_- I know plenty women and I have 5 siblings one being of which is a girl. Stop flaming and read the rest of it where I compared it to psychological terms where a little boy loves his mommy or a little girl loves her daddy. A crush doesn't nessersarily mean loving someone as a lover, but having an emotion for that person. :/ really are most of the people who come on here and talk shit just 11 year olds?

28 Name: Secret Admirer : 2007-05-04 14:16 ID:tYC35Bl/


Well maybe you missed other parts of her statement, like this one;

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29 Name: For All Needs : 2007-05-04 14:40 ID:8CDVHkkK

... ... Do you understand that everything you wrote was all rambling and not anything that could be put towards definition? We could both sit here and argue on what's wrong with this situation but, in the end its really her choice she has to choose what's wrong. Also, I'd like to say that as I have been taught to stay as far away from ignorance as possible. So I will not argue with you since you are obviously "__________"-"___." You decide what should go there! :P Well Missy OP if you have any more problems just drop a line. Goodday now.

30 Name: Secret Admirer : 2007-05-04 22:53 ID:aqzpf3Qo

There are plenty of fish in the sea, all but one of them is not your brother. If your still living at home your not mature enough to make a decision that will not only turn your world upside down but will have outstanding biological consequences for would be grand and great grand children. Chances are Oedipus and Electra here will get over it eventually and be able to live easier lives if they just wait it out.

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31 Name: Mega Orc : 2007-05-05 03:17 ID:XaJhabiS

oh damn thats so hot...incest..any chance that you could post some pics of you guys?

Well in any case id probably advise against dating your brother. First of all, you'd have to keep your relationship a secret from everyone. Thus, you will never be able to marry or have children. This brings the argument to anotehr point...if you dont marry then that means you guys will eventually seperate thus wrecking your current siblibn relationship.

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32 Name: Secret Admirer : 2007-05-05 05:49 ID:v+1s0KIV

You are completely wrong! My feelings for my brother aren't purely sexual like you said! I really care about my brother and love him deeply as he does for me. It's true that i have a crush on him now, but i don't want to simply "bang him" as you so articulately put it. And i must admit, i don't love him "asexually" either, hence the "i have a crush on him" statement. I'm very confused about my feelings for him but i know for sure that i don't just have the hots for him. It's a lot deeper than that.

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33 Name: Secret Admirer : 2007-05-05 10:27 ID:+s9x9DuO

I'm sorry to say this, but this thread gave me a really big boner.

34 Name: Secret Admirer : 2007-05-05 12:51 ID:tYC35Bl/


You're the one being ignorant; learn to read between the lines, learn to read period. How she choose to pronounce herself gave away her position, obviously. And what I wrote in addition to pointing this out is all true and relevant, thus not rambling. I mean you guys all seem fucking confused, therefore I feel responsible to shed some light on the subject.

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35 Name: Secret Admirer : 2007-05-05 12:56 ID:Lpqjh0mC

>A crush doesn't nessersarily mean loving someone as a lover, but having an emotion for that person.

I'm pretty sure a crush is mostly because you're physically attracted to a person, or at least it is initiated by physical attraction.

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36 Name: Secret Admirer : 2007-05-05 19:48 ID:v+1s0KIV

>>33 Ewww, I didn't need to know that >_<.

>>34 You're making it sound like i WANTED this to happen. Let me make this clear, i was fighting it all the way, okay?? I didn't WANT to feel this way for my brother, and if you read my previous posts, i realize that this is unnatural and wrong. I didn't ALLOW myself to feel this way, i was helpless to it. You can't help how you feel. Look at all the threads on this board about people falling in love with their best friend even though they knew they shouldn't and that it might ruin their friendship. This is kinda like that except my best friend also happens to be my brother. And stop guilt tripping me and making me feel bad about this by insinuating that i had a choice in this! You don't know the internal struggle i have to deal with and you don't know how much i'm disgusted by even myself that i'm going through all this so shut the hell up!! The only REAL choice i have is what to do with my feelings, and i choose to suppress them, as i have tried all along, so get off my case.

37 Name: For All Needs : 2007-05-05 20:03 ID:QauG6c+Z

... ... I was gone for one day and it looks like I missed so much >_> wow. Well little missy I hope you find what's in your heart and I know you came to this site for an honest oppinion. I'm sorry that we were argueing on your thread it was childish I will admit... So yeah again I'm sorry. As for my oppinion I'd say you shouldn't supress it, that could be bad for not only your brain but as well as for your heart. Maybe you could try relieveing your stress stress somehow? A good way is to tire yourself out. I'm a big fan of DDR you should give it a try turn all that stress into energy! I find this very effective and it calms you down. Or just try to have fun, get your mind off the situation and enjoy life to the fullest! XD Lets take our worries and throw them to the wind!

38 Name: For All Needs : 2007-05-05 20:04 ID:QauG6c+Z

Oh btw OP means Original Poster!!! \(>.<)/

39 Name: Secret Admirer : 2007-05-05 23:49 ID:dESWyX/0

Ooo...key...this thread is spiralling outta control.

My best advice for you is this: Before your brother made his feelings known, did you have any sexual urges or longing toward him? How much have you thought about this situation since you found out? Has your interest increased after the realization that you now know there is a guy who genuinely loves you, in one for or another, who wants to date you? Did you seek sexual release (masturbation and orgasm to the C- folks) while fantasizing about your brother in the last week? What of during the week BEFORE your brother confronted you? Answer those questions and you should be able to see what you should do as well as the truth behind "your emotions vs your hormones".

40 Name: Secret Admirer : 2007-05-06 08:23 ID:liFX8ExX


Just a question, are you asian? I have a feeling you are... Coz if you are, I might be your brother. :P

41 Name: 映画男 : 2007-05-06 08:31 ID:9JbG7Afh

>>40 wtf..?

42 Name: Secret Admirer : 2007-05-06 09:11 ID:Lpqjh0mC

I have a feeling that >>37 is asian too.
I'm kind of ashamed that I share that commonality with this outrageous hypocrite.

43 Name: Secret Admirer : 2007-05-06 10:16 ID:L/NESIe4



44 Name: Secret Admirer : 2007-05-06 11:59 ID:tYC35Bl/


Do you think you can fool me? Because you think I don't know? Perhaps you are forgetting that I am a human too, I have a mind and I have emotions, I know how we work.

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45 Name: Secret Admirer : 2007-05-06 12:01 ID:+s9x9DuO

I have a feeling she is white, I know how asians type, I am asian and I don't type like that :|

46 Name: Secret Admirer : 2007-05-06 13:44 ID:L/NESIe4


Uhh.. being asian doesn't mean you type in a certain way. Maybe the emoticons but its not that stereotyped.

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47 Name: Secret Admirer : 2007-05-06 17:05 ID:Cx+88439

To the poster of this thread: I think most of the advice people have given you is wrong. You shouldn't tell him that he's deluding himself, and you shouldn't pretend nothing happened.

TELL HIM THAT YOU LOVE HIM and that you'll do stuff with him to a certain extent.

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48 Name: Secret Admirer : 2007-05-06 20:51 ID:tYC35Bl/


Worst piece of advice to ever crawl out of the interbutt.

49 Name: Secret Admirer : 2007-05-06 21:28 ID:tm2rAMCB

Reading this thing makes me so fucking hard godamn...gota fap to Maria Ozawa

50 Name: Secret Admirer : 2007-05-07 01:47 ID:liFX8ExX


Incest exists in Asia just like in any other part of the world. In Japan, no comment, but you should take hints from most of the H-Manga you've read (if any).

51 Name: For All Needs : 2007-05-07 03:23 ID:8CDVHkkK

...... :/ ok Missy You won't get any good advice from these people. Most of these people are pervs and you won't get any good advice from people who just want to see you and your bro so they can imagine you guy shaving sex. That's just low. :/ Well what do u think about this situation? Whats the update is what I'm trying to ask.

52 Name: Secret Admirer : 2007-05-07 03:48 ID:v+1s0KIV

>>39 Okay, to answer your questions: 1. No, i did not have any sexual urges towards my brother before all this although i've always been attracted to him. 2. A lot 3. This question is worded really weirdly but yes, i guess. 4. No 5. No

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53 Name: Secret Admirer : 2007-05-07 03:51 ID:v+1s0KIV

>>51 Thanks so much for caring =). And don't worry, i can usually tell the difference between good and bad advice lol.

54 Name: For All Needs : 2007-05-07 04:15 ID:8CDVHkkK

Hmm It does seem that to be the reason, hmm maybe you should talk to him now. Being a man I've gone through times where if I didn't know what was going on inside the girl I liked head I would go crazy. Usually in that situation I would go to someone to vent to or talk about whats going on. In this case he can not... He can not do what you are doing right now and that is come to someone and talk about it. So he locks himself up in his room and decides to sort it out with himself. Which is a very ver very bad thing to do. The human mind is a very dangerous thing. So I think since you are the only other known person to know about this, (other than all of us)I think you should have a conversation with him. Just to talk things over. I wouldn't tell him how u feel just yet. Just talk to him like old times. Whatever you do. Do NOT! Ask him What has been the matter with you lately or What's been on your mind? Since we both know he will bring it up or tell you something like "You know Damn Well what's been on my mind!" something like that. Just catch him off guard and have a chat with him like old times. Be Strong! Be Tactful! Be Prevalent! We will make it through this!

55 Name: Secret Admirer : 2007-05-07 07:00 ID:tYC35Bl/


I'm glad to see how you're all sarcastic and distanced about what I'm conveying to you, that's great...

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56 Name: Secret Admirer : 2007-05-07 07:28 ID:TpfYo/L2

Are you even trying to give a good advise? or where do you pull this shit out of?

57 Name: Secret Admirer : 2007-05-07 09:33 ID:liFX8ExX


40 here.

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58 Name: Secret Admirer : 2007-05-07 09:34 ID:liFX8ExX


Oh, and i'm taking that as "yes, i'm asian.". :)

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59 Name: Secret Admirer : 2007-05-07 11:59 ID:OrhKyCGl

Guy who wrote 39 here...

It's simple. Before your brother made his feelings known to you, you felt towards him like a sister would a brother. After he made his feelings known, you started seeing him in a different way.

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60 Name: The Salvation Army : 2007-05-08 00:02 ID:6NZEwiew

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67 Name: Secret Admirer : 2007-05-08 04:07 ID:OrhKyCGl

Best advice all day.

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69 Name: argg : 2007-05-08 22:29 ID:CLKuUC5x

i fap inside my pooper

70 Name: For All Needs : 2007-05-09 14:41 ID:tEW/tvug

Hmmm, it seems this thread is going to hell >_> Well missy what's the update?

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72 Name: For All Needs : 2007-05-09 15:21 ID:tEW/tvug

Who the hell are you and why are you being so immature ?

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76 Name: Secret Admirer : 2007-05-09 20:55 ID:v+1s0KIV

Sheeesh, the trolls have taken over lol. Anyways, there is no update. My brother is still acting the same and i haven't brought up the courage to speak to him about it yet. He seems to want to be left alone. I miss him! T_T

77 Name: Secret Admirer : 2007-05-09 21:07 ID:v+1s0KIV

Oh, but there is this guy from school who is interested in me. He told one of his friends who told my friend who told me that he has a crush on me. He's in one of my classes and we're friends but not super close or anything. He's always flirting with me but i never took it seriously because he's the type of guy who jokes around with everyone. Anyways, i don't really like him back in the same way (because, duhh i'm preoccupied with someone else at the moment T_T) but i was thinking that if he does ask me out maybe i should say yes to him to help me get over my brother and at the same time give my brother the message that I'm unavailable so he can move on. What do you think?

78 Name: For All Needs : 2007-05-09 22:43 ID:qY/oEV1T

Hmmm that sounds good, other than the fact that you will u will be pretty much using the guy who likes you. It'd be unfair for him especially if he were to ever find out that he was being used. Do you think you will have fun with this guy and not just use him as a tool?

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80 Name: Secret Admirer : 2007-05-09 23:43 ID:OuZew9zg

Go ahead and hang out with him if he askes you out. ^^ I don't see the harm in it. And who knows, it probably could get your mind off your brother and you might end up liking this guy more.

81 Name: Secret Admirer : 2007-05-10 03:19 ID:L/NESIe4


hit the g-spot!

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83 Name: Frigid Onanoko : 2007-05-10 18:58 ID:JWx+JDmn

First of, Frigid Onanoko think your brother is stupid enough to actually desire you for such a long time. He really should (have) move on. Well, at least he talk about it, so you know. With that, you now also responsible for dealing with situation: since you are now aware that your brother likes you very much, you are now a player. You must play the game because the matter concerns both you and your brother (so two reasons to play.) That should be obvious.

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84 Name: Secret Admirer : 2007-05-10 22:24 ID:v+1s0KIV

>>83 Thanks for your advice Onanoko! It made a lot of sense and I love the way you write ^_^.

To answer your question, my brother has dated girls before but he has never had a girlfriend. He is popular with girls though because i remember a lot of girls were interested in him but he said that he was in love with me throughout all that time so he rejected all of them. But i don't agree with you that just because he's never had a GF that he doesn't know what love is. Who am i to tell him that he doesn't know what love is? It's all subjective anyways.

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85 Name: Secret Admirer : 2007-05-10 22:35 ID:v+1s0KIV

>>83 Oh and my brother would NEVER assault me so no worries ^_^.

86 Name: For All Needs : 2007-05-11 03:47 ID:qY/oEV1T

>_> ano...

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88 Name: Secret Admirer : 2007-05-15 04:17 ID:v+1s0KIV

Okay, I've talked to my brother about our situation. I was planning to tell him that i'll never be able to feel the same way about him but things didn't exactly work out that way. I started out by asking him what was wrong with him these past days and he was like "you should know" blah blah. Anyways, i ended up telling him the truth. It just came out, i wasn't planning on saying anything about my own feelings but he just looked so sad and i don't know...i just wanted him to know that i liked him too...i thought he deserved to know. So yeah, i told him everything, my feelings, my doubts, etc. He was really happy. He told me he was really relieved and that he thought that he had messed things up for us by telling me his feelings and that i didn't like him anymore, which is why he's been feeling so depressed lately. But anyways, i did tell him that nothing can come of it, even though we both have feelings for each other because it would never work out. He said that he realizes that too but he couldn't help the way he felt for me, and then...he kissed me! And i kind of kissed him back. It felt so natural to kiss him...but afterwards i realized what we had just done and it felt so wrong. But yeah..he kissed me again after that. I knew i should've stopped him but i didn't...i couldn't even think straight because i was so nervous. Anyways, I told him how confused i am about all this and he completely understands. I don't think i'll be writing about this anymore...i need to discuss all this with him. I just wanted you all to know what happened i guess and thank you all for trying to help me, even though i'm more lost now than ever and am probably really screwed up right now lol.

89 Name: Secret Admirer : 2007-05-15 05:49 ID:Heaven

We wish you the best (whatever that means).

90 Name: Secret Admirer : 2007-05-15 13:39 ID:4dKU2z6U


Why am I not surprised. Your brother is an inconsiderate asshole by the way. He obviously doesn't care much about you, he actually cares more about his retarded emotions. You have to come to terms with this fact and act accordingly.

91 Name: For All Needs : 2007-05-15 15:10 ID:5tEH+HEz

Wow. I came here thinking. This thread is coming along nicely... Then it just ends like that?! I don't really think its the end of it. This situation has gotten a lot deeper than you think it has. ... Was it real kissing or just a peck on the cheek. because there is nothing wrong with a peck on the cheek, but what it sounds like is that you guys just gave eachother their first kisses... Well I guess its over now... God's in his Heaven, All's right with the world :P

92 Name: Frigid Onanoko : 2007-05-15 16:18 ID:JWx+JDmn

Dammit! FO warned you for exactly this no? Ok. You did well to break the silence and start the talking. It not really wrong to unveil some of your emotions either, but you need be careful about it. Since you interpreting own emotions still, you extra vulnerable.

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93 Name: Frigid Onanoko : 2007-05-15 16:18 ID:JWx+JDmn

1) Both of you win if you can get it into your brothers head that you are off limit without executing your threat. This is what we aim for.
2) Your brother wins by getting at you while you do not tell on him because you still want to protect him. (and you obviously lose from this situation.)

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94 Name: Secret Admirer : 2007-05-16 06:07 ID:v+1s0KIV

>>91 It wasn't a kiss on the cheeks. He kissed me on the mouth both times. And i wouldn't say it's over, it's pretty much more complicated now than ever, arghaolhfahslkdfhklashdflkh. I just feel weird writing to strangers about this since it's turned out this way. It's kind of embarrassing.

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95 Name: Secret Admirer : 2007-05-16 07:59 ID:Heaven


>>My brother isn't like that and he DOES care about me. It's true that he kissed me after i told him that we can't have a boyfriend girlfriend relationship but blablablablablablablablablabla
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96 Name: Frigid Onanoko : 2007-05-16 10:51 ID:JWx+JDmn

Happy to see you are dealing with this with both your mind and heart. Yes, it difficult to see your brother as opponent because he no want harm to you. Don't worry, he's not your enemy, no need to force yourself. However, you can see that he sometimes not think about his actions, and in the heat of the moment, you two get too close. This to be avoided because it too stressing on you. >>93 is too harsh judging your brother, but correct in one thing: Even though there no malicious intent, he trying his luck. It great he respect your demand, but it not enough for you to stop being cautious, both towards him and towards yourself.

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97 Name: Secret Admirer : 2007-05-18 21:21 ID:v+1s0KIV

>>95 Yes, i agree with you that my brother has made some mistakes and has acted selfishly on some occasions. I believe him when he told me that he tried to fight romantic feelings for me however because this has been going on for 4 years! Don't u think, if he hadn't tried to fight it at all, that he would've told me or made a move on me sooner rather than wait until his senior year to do it? Bottom line is that yes, he made mistakes and acted selfishly but who doesn't?? That doesn't mean he doesn't love me or care about me. People act selfishly all the time, it's human nature. My friends all have love-hate relationships with their siblings and most of the time i think they treat their siblings like crap but deep down i know that they love each other because they're family. In fact, I think that me and my brother have a better sibling relationship than most people (aside from the romantic feelings for each other part of course lol). Look, loving someone romantically and loving them as family is not mutually exclusive. In the end, i know that he'll always be there for me (yes, even if i reject him 100 times) and that's all that matters.

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98 Name: Visual Kei : 2007-05-19 04:17 ID:yZJqbZTi

But if he truly cares for you, why can't he respect and honor the fact that you are siblings?
I think he's just a bit too much of a drama queen.
He's not searching the world for other opportunities and meeting other girls.

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99 Name: Secret Admirer : 2007-05-19 06:04 ID:Heaven

> As for an update, me and my brother are closer now than ever.

Hah! You rejected my advice but it turned out fine as I said. :)

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100 Name: Secret Admirer : 2007-05-19 13:21 ID:Heaven


100 GOT.

101 Post deleted by moderator.

102 Post deleted by moderator.

103 Name: Secret Admirer : 2007-05-19 21:19 ID:3+EHKodM

OP >> i recommend u to see "dreamers" a bernardo bertolucci film about two siblings in love in 1959 Paris, is based in a true story and the end, IMHO is very typical in this type of infatuations.

104 Name: Secret Admirer : 2007-05-21 11:00 ID:Heaven

while we're talking reading material, "flowers in the attic", virginia andrews.

105 Name: Secret Admirer : 2007-05-21 17:36 ID:7DU08zwo

>>104 Is gay.

106 Name: Secret Admirer : 2007-06-03 22:20 ID:4sShKo9s

hey fuck him itl make it all easier trust me

107 Name: Touch of Ink. : 2007-06-03 23:51 ID:AD9jWEtL

Heh. Play some Hentai games where the main character gets to screw his sister. It always has a happy ending.

Seriously speaking, that's just... That's harsh. You got to go with how you feel. I wonder who you are now that I've read your story. Hit me up on AIM Y!M or MSN. --> " rpencounter "

108 Name: Secret Admirer : 2007-06-04 00:27 ID:pieXR2zs

Dear >>1-san,

Their is only one thing to do..... Kill your brother and feed him to the local hobos

109 Name: Secret Admirer : 2007-06-04 15:39 ID:Heaven

stop responding to trolls, this is the cancer that is killing 4-ch

110 Name: Secret Admirer : 2007-06-05 05:01 ID:v+1s0KIV

Hey guys, i'm back. I've just been enjoying summer vacation. It feels so good to not have anything to do! hehe I'm here to update on what's been going on with my brother. We've been hanging out together a LOT, more like all day and every day. Also, we've been more touchy feely with each other lately, and no that doesn't mean we've been kissing or doing anything like that. We've just been more free with each other as far as hugging and holding hands goes. I don't you guys think this is weird? It seems like pretty innocent stuff, but i'm always afraid we might slip and go further than that.

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111 Name: Secret Admirer : 2007-06-05 11:32 ID:Heaven

>>110 nothing good will come outta this.

112 Name: Touch of Ink. : 2007-06-05 14:42 ID:AD9jWEtL

Duh, that's what Japanese Manga is for. They have a Manga for EVERY SINGLE RELATIONSHIP SITUATION POSSIBLE.

113 Name: Touch of Ink. : 2007-06-05 14:45 ID:AD9jWEtL

Your brother is in Love with you? Tons of Manga

You want to sleep with your Father but are afraid of what your Step Mother will think? Several Manga

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114 Name: Secret Admirer : 2007-06-05 15:17 ID:Heaven

fucking kill yourself

115 Name: Secret Admirer : 2007-06-05 15:30 ID:Heaven

I don't know if this is all real or not (every time the OP posts, it seems more and more fake...) but I'll tell you a true story, OP.

One of my best friends admitted to me that she and her cousin dated for 4 years secretly, from age 12-15, I think it was. No one suspected them. No one ever caught them. So what went wrong? Guilt. They both felt horrible guilt every time they were together. When their relationship became sexual, the guilt was even worse. They both cared for each other, but eventually the feelings of guilt and dirtyness overtook that. Now they avoid going to family reunions and parties because they don't want to see each other because it reminds them of their "sins".

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116 Name: Secret Admirer : 2007-06-05 15:48 ID:feK1TlNc


Words of wisdom.

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117 Name: Secret Admirer : 2007-06-05 16:14 ID:RTS66tg2

Lame troll is lame. GTFO.

118 Name: Secret Admirer : 2007-06-05 16:15 ID:RTS66tg2

Lame troll is lame. GTFO.

119 Name: Secret Admirer : 2007-06-05 20:48 ID:v+1s0KIV

What the hell??! I'm not a fuckin troll!! How hard is this to believe?? Do i sound like a troll? If i were a troll, i'd go around posting "eat my poop" or some stupid shit like that. Just because someone has an unusual problem (that is considered taboo) doesn't mean you can just disregard them as a liar and a troll. I knew i should've just disguised this problem as me falling in love with my best friend or something. Whatever. I'm not going to post here anymore b/c i'm sick of being called a troll and someone telling me to fucking kill myself is the last straw. So i will GTFO as you requested.

120 Name: Secret Admirer : 2007-06-05 21:13 ID:v+1s0KIV

>>115 Okay, i know i said i'd GTFO but whatever, I feel like replying to yours.

Yes, what happened to your friend seems like a really realistic ending to these types of situations. These days i feel guilt just for spending time with my brother. We are doing nothing wrong and I STILL feel guilt! It's because i know that i'm falling for him more and more each day. SO i can see your friend's ending as being totally realistic if i do end up pursuing a relationship with my brother.

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121 Name: Secret Admirer : 2007-06-05 21:16 ID:Heaven

Just be hedonistic, if it feels alright then keep on it.

122 Name: Harry Potter : 2007-06-05 22:02 ID:xOsz85sn

ask if you could give him a blowjob. He will say yes. While your doing it bite off his sexual organs and he will instantly never want to be near you ever again!

worked, i did it.

123 Name: j2sexy : 2007-06-05 22:04 ID:RD4bekBO


124 Name: Harry Potter : 2007-06-05 22:07 ID:xOsz85sn

what? so i got arrested and raped by a pissed-off father, but oh well.

125 Name: Secret Admirer : 2007-06-05 22:18 ID:Heaven


126 Name: j2sexy : 2007-06-05 22:22 ID:RD4bekBO

no, isnt a troll u shitbag. :(

thats right, u get a frowny face

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127 Name: Harry Potter : 2007-06-05 22:28 ID:xOsz85sn

125 shut up u stupid retard.

Ontopic..i think you should look at this:

128 Name: Secret Admirer : 2007-06-05 22:41 ID:xOsz85sn

corke is a nut
he has a rubber butt
every time he turns around
it goes putt-putt

129 Name: Secret Admirer : 2007-06-06 02:53 ID:Heaven

Where are the L&R police when we need 'em?

130 Name: Mireille Guy : 2007-06-06 04:43 ID:Heaven

I only read the first 2 posts by op, but here I come with a few questions, before I give any advice...
How old are you and what is your age difference? Did you grow up together, or was there a time where you both were separated from each other?
Before addressing any issues with your brother, or trying to fix him, be empathetic and treat the situation with care. A man that rejects other girls for a particular girl really means he's serious. Beyond that... I have no advice. I can relate a little since I've felt feelings for a cousin, but that's a relatively different situation (you are relatively closer).

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131 Name: Secret Admirer : 2007-06-06 07:48 ID:zbPDqdeE

I liked a cousin, and in my culture and background relationship with cousins are not considered incest, so even our families wouldn't get mad if we were very serious. Nothing sexual happened between us, I didn't even say anything, but she somehow got my intentions and rejected me before everything. I was 15 at the time and to this day we avoid each other and I have removed myself from the presence of my relatives, which were relatively close. we were playmates when we were kids.

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132 Name: Secret Admirer : 2007-06-06 10:56 ID:Heaven


Stop whining about what is hard due to your feelings, you need to kill them with fucking fire already, DO YOU KNOW HOW YOU DO THIS?
Doesn't seem like it so I'll tell you. Stop thinking, planning and acting acording to your emotions, and instead start thinking, planning and acting according to your sensibility. If you strive into the direction of the wind long enough it will turn, the resistance is about your feelings lagging where it's most comfortable for you to have them(believe it or not, you need to realize this). That is because we are lazy, habitual bitches, and these facts don't care about right or wrong, they care about easy or hard, more or less. So if it becomes more of a bother for you to have your feelings where you stove them now, you will be able to dislodge them from there, and plant them somewhere else.

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133 Name: Secret Admirer : 2007-06-06 19:08 ID:Heaven

this is the same person who created the other incest thread. he is having fun with you, you are a toy to him, stop responding and stop bumping this thread. let it die.

134 Name: Secret Admirer : 2007-06-06 21:01 ID:v+1s0KIV

>>133 OMG, you are such an idiot.

135 Name: Secret Admirer : 2007-06-06 21:36 ID:Heaven

I'd recomend everyone to watch "The Lovers of the Arctic Circle", it is a film about pretty much the same problem, you might find advice on it.

136 Name: Secret Admirer : 2007-06-10 11:12 ID:psqzEllF

no updates?

137 Name: Secret Admirer : 2007-06-11 03:54 ID:Heaven

No. Stop bumping this shit. LET IT DIE.

138 Name: ~Reila~ : 2007-06-14 10:15 ID:ziV5jDXc

So, what I need to know. Is he adopted? I mean, that would be logical...I'm just wondering.
Go read a manga called "Hot Gimmick."

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139 Name: IKEUCHISAN : 2008-01-04 12:44 ID:D8TV+8Az

Boku wa Imouto ni Koi wo Suru

140 Name: KD : 2008-01-05 23:13 ID:BNSvAlQR

hahaha! omg its an episode of autumn in my heart!!