There's a similar thread already, but this is my own problem so...
I once met this guy in the internet, because a couple of friends knew him from an oekaki. I started befriending with him as I found him very similar to me, and in no time he became my best friend. He had a girlfriend at the time, and whenever he had problems with her he would come to me looking for advice or comfort. I felt safe with him, he would always ask me about my problems and help me get over the hard times (teenager in pain lol). We once made a promise of going to Disneyland when I found out he had never gone to the park, and I often told him I'd always stay by his side, that we would be sidekicks forever. He would always make my day with his jokes and silliness.
But she has accepted the fact that he's forgotten about us, I can't. I can't forget about the promises we did and I can't forget how good his friendship was. He was the best thing that ever happened to me and I need him to continue enduring the shit life brings, he was my support and my shelter. I love him more than anything in the world, and I don't mean in a romantic kind of way but in the truest thing I've ever felt; I just want to be able to be part of his life again, as a friend or wathever. But I know this feelings are just poisoning me and leading me into being a sick stalker. I found his new e-mail yesterday and a couple of forum accounts, while doing my daily check on his websites, although I'm not really going to do anything with this info anyway, I just like to read him and know about his whereabouts.
have you guys ever seen each other in person? are you able to meet up with him?
imo he might still hold some feelings for you. maybe you should try showing how much you love him. You said that you would give him all your drawings and what not on christmas eve. YOu should also try to surprise him with something...like meet him at a romantic place or something. THen confess to him again and pour out what you really feel. Usually guys are more affected by physical contact so try to add a kiss to your confession. If he really still ilkes you then he'll defnitley realize it.
how old are you guys anyways?
Only if you hadn't started another relationship after you guys broke up...
No, we've never seen each other IRL, and unfortunately I cannot meet him. We don't just live in different countries but also in different continents, sigh. I had been planning on going with some friends to Europe, which is where he lives, and part of the plan was me separating from the group and pay him a visit... But I'm not sure if we'll carry on with the plan. My friends know he's someone special to me, and even if they don't like him much anymore because of how he acted because of my new boyfriend they accept and support my decision of trying to meet him.
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lawl well it might be irrelevant but dont tell me you guys arent curious on their appearance. I'd personally like to see how they match up and what not...lookswise i mean.
Not to sound shallow but if the guy your talking about turns out uglier than a hydra Im pretty sure you'd like him alot less. Alota people say that outer appearances doesnt matter but deep down they know its not true. It might not matter when you guys are like forty but since you guys are still barley out of the adolescence stage it'll play a big part in teh relationship.
I don't want an Internet boyfriend, one try was all I needed to understand those relationships are hard to mantain. I was too mentally and emotionally young at the time to keep the relationship alive.
lol heyy I have pale skin, somewhat long hair and am a big fan of metal. Do you think I have a chance with you? just kidding
your description of him completley matches a nerdy metalhead lmao.
move on and find someone else. from someone in a similar situation but from the point of view of that guy, if he really did care for you as much as it seems in your story, you've hurt him pretty bad. An apology probably won't be enough. i suggest cutting your loses and moving on.
> I know she feels abandoned just as I feel
> I decided to break up with him, promising we would still be friends
> I started another relationship ... I couldn't stand his jealousy and bitterness.
I am aware I was the one who abandoned him first, and after some time I realised this and apologised to him. For a while things were ok (this happened two months later after the break-up or so), but it all when downhill after that, just when I started a new school semester. I guess most of the obssesive behavior started since he changed his e-mail, as I felt relieved every time I logged in and his name was online, even if he wouldn't answer me or whether I called him or not. The presence was enough.
I think like a lot of girls, you want what you can't have. Or maybe you like a good challenge. Sorry to make assumptions, but I want you to consider the possibility. If you really do care about him that much, wouldn't you want him to be happy and respect that he's trying to move on? Believe me, the ball is in his court. If he wanted to talk to you, he'd get online again, but as it goes, he's preoccupied with his new life. I'm sorry for being harsh. Believe me, I know how hard it is to let go of a close friend. In the end, you have to do what's best for them. It's a possibility that after some time, you guys can patch things up. For now, try to move on yourself. If friendship is really all you want, then it shouldn't be too hard to find.
But a cucumber in your pussy and make me a pie, useless shit.
Haha well I really miss my girlfriend and I was just looking for some stuff that could help me and I feel your pain.. I have had alot of troubled friendships in my life. Im not quite as old as you, but I know exactly where you are coming from. Myspace.com/blaze_goldman
Myspace faggot. STFU
lawl heres my myspace www.myspace.com/berniekosar...I dont mind getting to know you either
Myspace faggot. STFU