A short background so you know where I'm coming from. I liked this girl in high school; it turned out she wasn't into guys. I desperately tried pursuing her in spite of the fact, to no avail. It caused me a great deal of pain just knowing that me being with her was futile. My psyche was changed; I'm more irritable now, and now and then I'll fall into bouts of depression. She doesn't know this.
well. instead of looking at it generally. Every person has their own story, so I dont think its that men are treating women badly overal causing her to not be into men.
If u really like her, then, treat her nice, gain her trust, and let her know you really care.
You are making sense...
I've hurt my ex although I didn't mean it. Men and women are worlds apart. A woman knows what another woman wants that's why there are women that prefers women instead of men although they're still attracted to the latter. They just don't want to waste their time and get hurt again.
Thank you >>2. Your words help ease my thoughts.
But as you said, everyone sees everyone else their own personal way. I saw once in labs at school, these guys were using some computers, and all three of them had wallpapers of more or less naked women in orgasmic poses. I was like, come on you pieces of shit; I know men think about sex a lot, but in a public place like that with other girls, come on; have some decency!
Hay OP, there are many more fish in the sea. Just keep looking. Swallow your pride and make it cheap. Swallow your pride and go after someone who doesn't measure up to your standards. I'm shocked to learn so late in life, thirty six years old here, that getting tail is so fucking easy. Get over your romanticism because being romantic is a simple by-product of sexual intimacy.
Hmm, I think men are naturally perverted. I dont think being perverted is a bad things, its natural.
If we all think about it, if our parents werent perverted, in a sense, we wouldnt be here. People being perverted is probably the reason we are here today.
I'll admit that I'm the kind of guy to want some sex just like a lot of guys however i sympathize with OP because I had a crush in High school who thought all i wanted was sex
although it's true i wanted sex it wasn't meaningless sex i wanted
I've heard many people (mostly women) say that chivalry is, in fact, dead. If this is true then I would say that what you are proposing is true. And a main problem with that is if that is the mindset of women then everyone who is chivalrous is instantly gay and therefore unattainable.
>A woman knows what another woman wants
Lies. A woman is more likely to know what another woman wants.
This thread stinks generalizations that have been reduced to useless caricatures.
>So if we are nice, we're gay. If we're not then they don't like us...
>I also know many people who would like a nice guy.
do they wear leather pants and not own motorcycles?
>do they wear leather pants and not own motorcycles?
No, no they don't. They are, for the most part the sweet kind.. possibly not what you're looking for.
It's dangerous to make generalizations based on a very localized pattern. Certainly, perhaps heterosexuality is becoming far less popular in your region, but you cannot jump to the conclusion that it is a phenomenon common to all.
Gasp! A sane person as well as articulate person! Thanks.
We need more people like that here.
>Even if you could find proof that homosexuality is gaining ground, it's not necessarily for the reasons that you might think. It could just be a simple matter of it becoming more acceptable in Western society, and thus people who are on the fence about their sexuality are less pressured to fall any one way
dont worry, its just your location (in a way). at my highschool about 60% of the girls are gay.
4 of my sisters friends are gay. another person I know is bi.
their cleansiness maybe. well mannered. (dont fart, burp, think all guys are just there for sex, got with one guy dumped them so they like chicks now. I know if I was a girl I'd be gay.
>I've heard many people (mostly women) say that chivalry is, in fact, dead.
Chivalry is dead. And women killed it!
I just finished my bag of chocolate and bottle of water, and for whatever reason, this came into my mind.
You've made exactly the right choice. Enlighten yourself *for yourself, and they'll see!
I think >>26 has said all that is needed to be said.
corke is a nut
he has a rubber butt
every time he turns around
it goes putt-putt
>>26/OP - "If I'm happy with myself, I'll shine so bright I'll blot out the sun, and eventually, I'll find a girl who I'll share happiness with, and who I'll do my best to keep happy. Chivalry is dead only if you believe it to be so."
>>10 I think men are naturally perverted. I dont think being perverted is a bad things, its natural.
qft. I wish people showed more interest in topics like these, since there is a scientific explanation for this. But I'll delve into it some other time.