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plz read; i'd like to know what everyone thinks (33)

1 Name: TS : 2007-05-08 09:13 ID:ecn+xKg1

Hello all.

A short background so you know where I'm coming from. I liked this girl in high school; it turned out she wasn't into guys. I desperately tried pursuing her in spite of the fact, to no avail. It caused me a great deal of pain just knowing that me being with her was futile. My psyche was changed; I'm more irritable now, and now and then I'll fall into bouts of depression. She doesn't know this.

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2 Name: Secret Admirer : 2007-05-08 10:08 ID:2zm5YVgg

well. instead of looking at it generally. Every person has their own story, so I dont think its that men are treating women badly overal causing her to not be into men.

If u really like her, then, treat her nice, gain her trust, and let her know you really care.

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3 Name: Secret Admirer : 2007-05-08 14:23 ID:lQwY1ZTX

You are making sense...

I've hurt my ex although I didn't mean it. Men and women are worlds apart. A woman knows what another woman wants that's why there are women that prefers women instead of men although they're still attracted to the latter. They just don't want to waste their time and get hurt again.

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6 Name: Secret Admirer : 2007-05-08 17:51 ID:yX2OtFJ5

>>2 is right about everyone having their own backstory. follow >>2's advice. it's all you can do really.

7 Name: Secret Admirer : 2007-05-08 19:49 ID:Heaven

>>1 tl;dr

8 Name: TS : 2007-05-09 01:52 ID:ecn+xKg1

Thank you >>2. Your words help ease my thoughts.

But as you said, everyone sees everyone else their own personal way. I saw once in labs at school, these guys were using some computers, and all three of them had wallpapers of more or less naked women in orgasmic poses. I was like, come on you pieces of shit; I know men think about sex a lot, but in a public place like that with other girls, come on; have some decency!

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9 Name: Secret Admirer : 2007-05-09 04:13 ID:k+XCZKio

Hay OP, there are many more fish in the sea. Just keep looking. Swallow your pride and make it cheap. Swallow your pride and go after someone who doesn't measure up to your standards. I'm shocked to learn so late in life, thirty six years old here, that getting tail is so fucking easy. Get over your romanticism because being romantic is a simple by-product of sexual intimacy.

10 Name: Secret Admirer : 2007-05-09 09:02 ID:EdTS5KmB

Hmm, I think men are naturally perverted. I dont think being perverted is a bad things, its natural.

If we all think about it, if our parents werent perverted, in a sense, we wouldnt be here. People being perverted is probably the reason we are here today.

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11 Name: Secret Admirer : 2007-05-09 14:55 ID:HlZgWyz9


12 Name: xypher : 2007-05-16 16:12 ID:wWWaq9ku

I'll admit that I'm the kind of guy to want some sex just like a lot of guys however i sympathize with OP because I had a crush in High school who thought all i wanted was sex

although it's true i wanted sex it wasn't meaningless sex i wanted

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13 Name: Secret Admirer : 2007-05-16 18:35 ID:kEMxl2pD

I've heard many people (mostly women) say that chivalry is, in fact, dead. If this is true then I would say that what you are proposing is true. And a main problem with that is if that is the mindset of women then everyone who is chivalrous is instantly gay and therefore unattainable.

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14 Name: Secret Admirer : 2007-05-16 18:41 ID:Heaven

>A woman knows what another woman wants

Lies. A woman is more likely to know what another woman wants.

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15 Name: Secret Admirer : 2007-05-16 18:47 ID:Heaven

This thread stinks generalizations that have been reduced to useless caricatures.

>So if we are nice, we're gay. If we're not then they don't like us...
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16 Name: Secret Admirer : 2007-05-16 20:43 ID:o4sWR1md

I know many women who have no idea what women want and find them just as confusing as men find women.


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17 Name: Secret Admirer : 2007-05-16 21:03 ID:q/av7mgz

>I also know many people who would like a nice guy.

do they wear leather pants and not own motorcycles?

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18 Name: Secret Admirer : 2007-05-17 01:41 ID:o4sWR1md

>do they wear leather pants and not own motorcycles?

No, no they don't. They are, for the most part the sweet kind.. possibly not what you're looking for.

19 Name: Secret Admirer : 2007-05-17 02:42 ID:V6jt29JP

It's dangerous to make generalizations based on a very localized pattern. Certainly, perhaps heterosexuality is becoming far less popular in your region, but you cannot jump to the conclusion that it is a phenomenon common to all.

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20 Name: Secret Admirer : 2007-05-17 18:08 ID:Heaven

Gasp! A sane person as well as articulate person! Thanks.
We need more people like that here.

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21 Name: Secret Admirer : 2007-05-17 18:48 ID:gYDHbcfB

>Even if you could find proof that homosexuality is gaining ground, it's not necessarily for the reasons that you might think. It could just be a simple matter of it becoming more acceptable in Western society, and thus people who are on the fence about their sexuality are less pressured to fall any one way
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22 Name: ... : 2007-05-18 04:15 ID:xtJh0IGo

dont worry, its just your location (in a way). at my highschool about 60% of the girls are gay.
4 of my sisters friends are gay. another person I know is bi.

23 Name: : : 2007-05-18 04:35 ID:xtJh0IGo

their cleansiness maybe. well mannered. (dont fart, burp, think all guys are just there for sex, got with one guy dumped them so they like chicks now. I know if I was a girl I'd be gay.

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25 Name: Secret Admirer : 2007-05-20 03:35 ID:J+M+en93

>I've heard many people (mostly women) say that chivalry is, in fact, dead.

Chivalry is dead. And women killed it!

26 Name: TS : 2007-05-20 06:39 ID:ecn+xKg1

OP here.

I just finished my bag of chocolate and bottle of water, and for whatever reason, this came into my mind.

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27 Name: Secret Admirer : 2007-05-20 16:02 ID:JgHkIQod

You've made exactly the right choice. Enlighten yourself *for yourself, and they'll see!

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29 Name: Secret Admirer : 2007-06-04 18:40 ID:cDuH24jc

>>28 riiiiight.

30 Name: Half Turned Pages : 2007-06-05 22:17 ID:E+WbpNKO

I think >>26 has said all that is needed to be said.

31 Name: Secret Admirer : 2007-06-05 22:41 ID:sNycdf2+

corke is a nut
he has a rubber butt
every time he turns around
it goes putt-putt

32 Name: Secret Admirer : 2007-06-06 00:15 ID:Maem+Mws

>>26/OP - "If I'm happy with myself, I'll shine so bright I'll blot out the sun, and eventually, I'll find a girl who I'll share happiness with, and who I'll do my best to keep happy. Chivalry is dead only if you believe it to be so."

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33 Name: Secret Admirer : 2007-06-06 04:26 ID:Heaven

>>10 I think men are naturally perverted. I dont think being perverted is a bad things, its natural.
qft. I wish people showed more interest in topics like these, since there is a scientific explanation for this. But I'll delve into it some other time.