I'm in love with a girl that live so far away, we met in internet 7 months ago and have been talking each day, she loves me, i love her, but the distance is so much, I live in Europe and she in South America.
Suicide. Or suck cocks.
Is it really important the reason why you need to postpone the trip? how old are you? why would you be afraid of your parents reaction?
The reason is that I have to do university papers. I'm 22 years old. And I'm afraid because my parents are overprotective, so much.
I think your relationship with this girl is at a stage that it still might not work out. So I don't think you have the obligation to your parents just yet.
I say go for the trip. Just tell your parents its a holiday. Heaps of college students go away for holidays and such. When you do meet her and things work out really well, then... tell your parents.
I forgo to add:
So once you actually have some sort of 'material'. Like you have actually met her, dated her, held her hand, kissed her ... then I think your parents will be more accepting.
The problem is that I need to justify the travel in some way, I had think to say that is to see a friend, but probably will not work, so...
You definitely have to do what you feel is right, and do it fast.
back in 2004, I had the daughter of a family friend come to the US and stay with my family. She was a year younger than me. I was in university then, but my school was only about 40 minutes away so after classes I would come home and show her around my town. Next thing I know, I fell for her.
>>8 She broke with me. And I told to my parents. Now I wanna die.
You'll live. If this broke up this easily, then it really wasn't worth it.
You need to get a bit of a backbone though.
Sorry to hear that 1.
That's life man. Just don't kill yourself, things will get better with time.