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help... relationship didn't get off the ground (22)


2 Name: OP : 2007-05-23 01:12 ID:tYXQJddm

Anyway, to continue, came to our mutual friends' house first... Then went to pick her up... We'd idly discussed plans to see a movie while there, but not much more... We'd earlier pretty much said that we'd just be soooo shy on meeting each other...

Instead, she was there, and just kinda got in the car without even a "hi"... We went to the mall, and the... distance... was almost visible... I never imagined seeing her like this... It was like a whole other person! Her friends were even not understanding it... They made some comments about how neat it was that two of their friends were dating, but she didn't really smile or anything...

Frankly... She was acting rather "emo", to use a phrase I hate using... She did not act that way all the times we'd talked and txted and chatted for weeks... This was a whole different person, really, and I was really hurt...

We later went to the local park, but even there, while her friends, and me, were clowning around, she wouldn't get involved at all, and never really responded to me, by saying anything... "Hey, you, why don't you come over here" would've at least been nice... We went walking in the woods there, and she kept running ahead and not looking back to see that we were keeping up ok...

Overall, she seemed very apathetic, not only to me, but to her friends... She did mention that she had a rough time at her job the night before, and that the supervisor had ripped into her & her other people working there, but still...

Eventually, we left the friends, and picked up her little sister & her little sister's BF, and went to a drive-in theater... I've not felt so alone while watching a movie with complete strangers as I did with her... Her sister made jokes about them & us to be funny, and she barely laughed...

(I'm cutting out a lot of little details, but the important parts remain the same...)

The worst was when we went to the snack bar, and while she didn't want anything to eat, and I asked if she'd wait a minute & walk back to the car with me, she replied "Nah, I'm goin' back to the car, you can follow my sis' & her bf back"... That really, really hurt me...

That was about the end of the evening...

Her friends were very dissapointed to hear that all that had happened (or not happened, depending on how you looked at it...)

They basically said that that was not what she was like, and they didn't understand what was going on either...

(Gonna post the last bit in it's own post after this)