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1 Name: Secret Admirer : 2007-05-25 09:06 ID:QXiexH4k

What should I do?

  1. Confess to her, risking being rejected and not seeing her/talking to her ever again.
  2. Not confess, remain good friends (talking mostly online though, we've just graduated) and possibly hate myself for the rest of my life.
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2 Name: Secret Admirer : 2007-05-25 13:35 ID:XDI70+JO

Tragic copypasta problem.

Saying that, obviously 1. Except if you're gonna confess online, you're better off doing number 3 first.

3 Name: Secret Admirer : 2007-05-25 14:36 ID:LN9/XjRz

number 3 is for life loosers. are you a looser?

4 Name: Secret Admirer : 2007-05-25 14:40 ID:U68uTlDY

I'd say to suggest that you two meet up somewhere, and then confess to her in some way, after gauging the atmosphere... If you really had something going on, don't let it go by inaction... 'course, I've been having spurts of weird sudden bravery along those lines & such lately, so my suggestion may too bold given whatever your particular situation may be..

5 Name: OP : 2007-05-25 14:46 ID:QXiexH4k

>>3
I don't consider 3 seriously, but I do feel like one.

>>2

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6 Name: Secret Admirer : 2007-05-25 15:33 ID:kC/DyOlu

I was in your situation a couple months ago. I'm not a good person to be giving advice, being still pretty moronic. Nonetheless:
- As >>2 said, do NOT confess online. I did, and lived to regret it (even though I did succeed eventually, it just made things awkward until I asked her out)
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8 Name: Secret Admirer : 2007-05-25 21:18 ID:zVgwF5AY

What is better: to regret something you did or to regret something you didn't?

9 Name: Secret Admirer : 2007-05-26 06:25 ID:sSz57Nrz

Depends. If it's something harmless, it's better to regret something you did. If it's rape or murder, it might be better to regret that you did it.

10 Name: Secret Admirer : 2007-05-26 10:52 ID:Heaven

>>7
On the contrary, it's not delicious at all.

>>1

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12 Name: OP : 2007-05-26 21:15 ID:T4Rj0SzE

>>9
And that's the whole problem: I wouldn't consider confessing to her harmless to me. It can ruin everything I've already achieved.

But thanks for advice, everyone. I think I will try to find an opportunity to meet her and confess, after all.

13 Name: Secret Admirer : 2007-05-26 23:57 ID:Z0DGDT+w

give her a dildo, she'll let you do kinky things to her.

14 Name: madman's horse : 2007-05-26 23:58 ID:Z0DGDT+w

also, DON'T remember protection, then you'll have kiddies, and you'll be forced to see more of her.

15 Name: MC 900 Ft. Jesus : 2007-05-27 18:04 ID:3TGnRFOj

Since nobody in this thread has given you any decent fucking advice, I guess I'll jump in.

  1. DO NOT TELL HER YOU LOVE HER. I don't care how much you think you love her, life isn't a fucking movie and actually saying that to her is practically guranteed to creep her the fuck out because you're coming on so strong and she'll be put on the spot and turn you down. The only way this wouldn't happen is if she feels the same way, and I gurantee you that you don't want to make your move expecting that to be the case. If you only take one this away from this thread, let this be it.
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16 Name: Secret Admirer : 2007-06-03 07:14 ID:f5bDFAas

Key point for 15 is #4. I don't agree with the "women on the whole are stupid" part, but OP, listen to that guy.

I have to admit -- I've had more success where I appeared to not be as interested as I really was.

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17 Name: Secret Admirer : 2007-06-03 10:15 ID:BzcvxSVf

>>16

>I've had more success where I appeared to not be as interested as I really was.
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