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Pretty Sure I Just Wasted My Virginity (33)

1 Name: Christy : 2007-05-30 03:53 ID:2CvwAGV0

Helllo, /love/.
My names is Christy and as much as I try to deny it, I'm still just a silly teenage girl. Please keep that in mind as you read.
I'm post numbah 224 from the Virginity thread and I believe I have a problem that in the long run, is likely insignificant but as of now...It's sort of a pain.

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24 Name: Secret Admirer : 2007-06-02 14:58 ID:QI+YV3KN


Seconded. I lost my virginity in a similar fuck-buddy situation and, although we consistently hung out (read: watched a movie, got some dinner, talked, and then fucked), he never would talk about it with me, easily got frustrated by my relative inexperience, and was, overall, a pretty borderline guy; funny to have at parties, interesting to talk to on an individual basis, but hard to foresee being long-term involved with, well, anyone.

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25 Name: Secret Admirer : 2007-06-03 02:29 ID:VZSQFoEt

Yeah, you just wasted it.

Hormones - 1

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26 Name: SomeoneHere : 2007-06-03 08:04 ID:2+XFTqt3

Sadly, I'm with Secret Admirer on this one. I'm over 20 now, but I'm still a virgin. I've had a lot of chances of losing it, but all of them would have been the same way.

All I can say is, try to make it up to yourself... talk to him, even if he already knew you were a virgin. Talking can make the pain a little lighter... maybe it won't make it go away, but it'll make you have a clearer view of what he is like in reality and how you can avoid situations involving privacy and selfesteem in the future.

27 Name: Christy : 2007-06-04 13:20 ID:2CvwAGV0

Yeah, definitely not preggers.

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28 Name: Secret Admirer : 2007-06-04 13:46 ID:QI+YV3KN


Regarding your response to >>24 (thaaat's me)
Lady, lots of people DO go through bouts of doubt regarding their first time. As one of the few creatures that HAS sex for pleasure and not just procreation, we have an awfully nasty attitude about it (in most places of the world).

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29 Name: Secret Admirer : 2007-06-04 14:18 ID:mzNMYQZa

Don't feel bad, I lost mine to my very first boyfriend ever, and it hurt like a bitch, and the guy didn't give a flying fuck about me or my feelings.

And you know what? I was sad at first, but after that all I could think was, "Well, at least I got the first few painful times over with with someone I don't really care about. Now when it comes time to do it with someone worthwhile we can get right down to the fun part!" Haha.

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31 Name: Christy : 2007-06-06 05:36 ID:2CvwAGV0

Thank you very much for your nice words.


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32 Name: Secret Admirer : 2007-06-06 05:53 ID:emKndOXl

Virginity is more of a sentilmental(sp?) thing anyway, like how girls like to dream that their first kiss is soft as marshmellow and taste like lemon crap.

if you dont value it personally then its no biggie, just wait until you do find the right person to enjoy it with.

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33 Name: maus : 2007-06-06 08:43 ID:Heaven

As >>24 said,

>you seem like a pretty sensible lady, so find yourself a sensible man that appreciates you and gives you the attention you deserve.
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