I was in Seattle last week, and I noticed something kind of interesting about people and relationships. Now I've heard that attractive men will date an ugly/fat girl, love them a lot, but keep her "out of sight", while an attractive girl will date an ugly fat guy but have no problem with being around him in public, and indeed, proclaim him to be the greatest guy ever. You don't see couples that mismatched very often on the other side of Washington where I live, but over there I noticed a lot of couples with normal looking guys with girls who were either 1) the Goodyear blimp with legs(sometimes even the Hindenburg), 2) Were beaten with the ugly stick and then thrown into the Great Pit of Carkoon followed by the fires of Mt. Doom, or 3) Both. I only noticed one couple where the guy was like that- girl was the sort of person most guys would walk into traffic while watching her. They were Japanese, unless other Asians like to speak Japanese in public, while all the horrible girls were white.
you confused because you no see that match involve more than what can see at first glance.
Beauty's in the eye of the beholder. It might be odd, but some people find tubbiness/ugly stick beatings sexy/cute/whatever language youngsters use these days.
It's like having a fetish for tentacle porn or something.
Over here a lot of the asian girls go out with uglier asian guys.
I think it's the sense of security.
I would say it means that someone is in love with the other, personality and soul-wise, not just for the body, which is really overall superficial...
I myself am not bad looking, at least, so I've been told, but I don't specifically seek out good-looking people, and be elitist about romance...
I totally agree (..are you an aussie?). The notion that he will always look up to her and that she could fling him off at a whim. Oh, and I suppose there are girls who genuinely value personality.
some people like to date up, some are more comfortable dating down.
There are two kinds of strange relationships, money involved or heart involved but in majority there are money they don't care what kind of appearance he/she does have nor qualities as long as if they have money..Only a few strange couples have their serious relationships most of them are middle - aged rather than young ones i can sense that..
It is true, beauty is in the eye of the beholder. What I found most attractive about my current Girlfriend was that she Has unkempt hair, glasses, was socially awkward and is flat chested. Personally I Have a crazy 1860's style facial hair and an horrid slur due to a malformed jaw.
Geek girls fall into two types but I agree, the good type is awesome.
Awesome geek girl?
I thought that only happened in the movies.
My girlfriend is an awesome geek girl. But to be fair, she's not really very geeky (though she likes to call herself that.) She plays a lot of video games, spends a ton of time on the internet, has few friends, and makes the hottest orgasmic noises I have ever heard when we have sex.
I would have to say that there's probably money involved, or other odd circumstances leading to such events. I mean, I often see attractive young Russian or Asian women hanging on the arms of old fugly and overweight guys, and you can literally see in their eyes, "x days until citizenship" or "How long is it going to take for this toad to croak?" There are some cases, where it is a matter of heart, an event occurred where an otherwise ugly guy's golden personality shines through, and strikes a woman's heart; for example if he saved her life by fighting off a grizzly bear, or saved her from a drunk assailant on a train.
In America I see lots of lesser attractive girls dating with good looking guys. of course there is nothing wrong with it since guys fall for the personality. Also vise-versa for that situation and there is nothing wrong with it. Person who sees that is wrong.
My experience with fobs, is that they naturally find Westerners so enchanting. The girls see white males as charming, charismatic, gentlemen. Whilst the guys are bewitched by the exoticness of blond, blue-eyed females. Likewise, the white males with Asian females. The inequality in all of this is that white females tend not to find Asian males attractive. Quite often, they only play with them until they get bored, or until his wallet runs dry.