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Does shy intimidate guys? (20)


1 Name: Secret Admirer : 2007-06-26 00:28 ID:i6D3legI

I'm kind of shy when it comes to guys, i have trouble talking to them without blushing or sounding really stupid. I try to act normal, but its difficult to do without seeming like i'm forcing it. Does this scare guys off?

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2 Name: Secret Admirer : 2007-06-26 02:12 ID:EnDTWCjo

I hate to say it, but as a guy, if you're shy & not really talking to me, I'd be bluntly afraid to ask you out, for fear that you're not "into me", and would be offended by me asking...

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3 Name: Secret Admirer : 2007-06-26 02:19 ID:EnDTWCjo

Might I add that also, we're afraid of suddenly, if we ask you out, being regarded as a creep guy... Eg: "I was just being friendly w/ Joe, then he tried to ask me out, and that's just creepy, ewww..."...

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4 Name: Secret Admirer : 2007-06-26 03:58 ID:Sx0IwovQ

>>2
>>3

Yes, this is the regrettable condition of shyness. Of course, with me, I wouldn't dare ask out even the girls who are obviously interested in me. And the poor shy ones who I usually like so much. I wouldn't dare so much as say hello.

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5 Name: Secret Admirer : 2007-06-26 04:11 ID:J5K79s3z

I agree with every reply. And it was sadly the same for me. I hope the next time I meet a girl, I won't be so shy. So far, I haven't talked to a female(Or rather, a female I had an attraction to) in probably a year. But I think I've build up my confidence enough to actually not fear rejection. That and I figured I've got nothing to lose.

6 Name: Secret Admirer : 2007-06-26 05:53 ID:R+KGQLWO

If you have this kind of trouble and you don't have many female friends, go out and try to make some. Just friends, to talk to and perhaps advise you on issues like this. If you do try this, just be extremely careful not to fall in love with them no matter how friendly and nice they are to you. Trust me, I've learned this the hard way... many times.

7 Name: Secret Admirer : 2007-06-26 06:02 ID:R+KGQLWO

btw the last post refered to posts 2-5

to the OP: For christ sakes ask them out, especially the ones who appear to be the shy type like you. Don't automatically go for the outgoing obnoxious jock's (not saying you are but i'm just saying). They'll ultimately treat you like shit. You, as a woman, have a very special power to boost the confidence of shy guys just by asking them out. You just might open up a side to them you never knew they had in them. God, I wish someone could do that for me... So, GO FOR IT.

8 Name: Secret Admirer : 2007-06-26 06:43 ID:J5K79s3z

>>6>>7
Well, I did have a few female friends. But I had to move so most of the female friends I know now are online. And my best female friend, I haven't talked to her in a while.

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9 Name: Ace Ventura : 2007-06-27 11:07 ID:wiHAOovA

Hello to everyone im just new here i just wondering whats goin on...=)

10 Name: Secret Admirer : 2007-06-27 15:52 ID:Heaven

Then don't post, jackass.

11 Name: Secret Admirer : 2007-06-27 18:48 ID:UEyOa+Q6

I'm dating a shy girl. It's not really a problem, but it's hard when I'm the one that has to do all the affectionate stuff. I sometimes wish she would be less shy and more affectionate towards me.

12 Name: Secret Admirer : 2007-06-27 21:01 ID:nmIPAo7v

>>11
Make sure you let her know then that is alright for her to be affectionate with you then. She just might be a little afraid.

13 Name: Secret Admirer : 2007-06-28 00:07 ID:6xZZPamM

>>11
How do you know if she does like it when you're affectionate?

14 Name: Secret Admirer : 2007-06-28 11:59 ID:x47sjPue

i guess she'll do the same to you in return to show that she likes it and to the OP i would say if you are quite positive the guy likes you i think is not a wrong move to ask him out.how u ask?you could ask him thro phone(text or call) or jus do it on9 if it feels better.then you can start talking to the guy in real talking bout stuff related to the stuff u talked thro ur convo on9 or phone, then you could ask him if he wants to catch a movie or so.tat's my idea only i m sure there are 1001 ways for a shy girl to ask a guy out

15 Name: Secret Admirer : 2007-06-28 14:41 ID:Heaven

>>12
I once talked to her about it, and she said that she doesn't want to be like the girls that are way too clingy and needy, so to avoid that she has to do the opposite. She says she's trying to be better about it, though I haven't seen much change yet.
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16 Name: Secret Admirer : 2007-06-28 19:58 ID:Heaven

>>15
Does she blush? Does she blush? :D

17 Name: Secret Admirer : 2007-06-29 03:39 ID:Heaven

>>14
on9? Don't tell me thats suppose to be "online"...

18 Name: Secret Admirer : 2007-06-29 11:50 ID:iIyTqF9V

yeah on9 is online...

19 Name: Secret Admirer : 2007-06-29 12:23 ID:Heaven

>>18
that's terrible, muriel

20 Name: Secret Admirer : 2007-06-29 13:03 ID:7L5KrcxO

>>18
It annoys me to the ends of hell when fobs use that.

GROW A FUCKING TONGUE.