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1 Name: Secret Admirer : 2007-06-27 22:07 ID:zcGUv8qw

There is this girl I'm madly in love with... We are very friendly and talk a lot. The thing is, I try to let her know I love her, and although I'm probably very clumsy at it, I think she knows that by now.
What could be the possible signals she could be giving me? I'm really bad at reading anything indirect.
(I want to know whether I actually have a chance with her or I am just deceiving myself, and she just waits for me to tell her directly so that she could reject me...)

2 Name: Secret Admirer : 2007-06-28 14:45 ID:1rm1iEdu

You'll need to give some more specifics if you want any good advice. What are the ways you've tried to show you love her? If it's just buying her gifts, comforting her when she's down, helping her out when she needs advice, and stuff like that, then watch out! She might have stuck you on the Friend List.

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3 Name: Secret Admirer : 2007-06-28 17:18 ID:P+szTtSk

She want to be your friend, not your lover.

4 Name: ObsceneBelongings : 2007-06-28 18:32 ID:crV1fpNL

Listen, you must understand that signals aren't everything. I believed at one time that this one girl was throwing all these signals out at me, that she actually loved me. I was so wrong, I used to be very dense when it came to love signals. Back in High School, girls would get so pissed off at me when I blew them off unknowingly that they wanted to flirt. I missed out on so many chances because of that, and when this girl who I was friends with since my freshman year broke up with her bf on graduation, I tried to help her out. Eventually, we hung out more and more, the more we hung out, I started seeing signals but also warning flares. I was confused, so when another guy started approaching her I jot jealous, and a week or 2 later asked her to me mine. She rejected me there on the spot, with no delays. We aren't even friends anymore. Sucks huh? Well just make sure you look for the right signals to look for. If you think u saw one, that isn't good enough. I've learned my lesson. Peace.