So recently I was tasked with driving this Japanese girl (and her friend, but she was asleep) home from a party, since she lives with her host family in my part of town (no idea how she got there in the first place though). We talked for most of the ride, and things were alright.
I ended up running into her a few days later at school (more foreign students here in the summer than locals... strange place i live in), and we got to talking, and I drove her home again. We got along pretty well and she asked me for my phone number and gave me hers. She also had me give her my MSN info.
For how long has she been out of Japan?
She's been here for just under four months (i think). But her english is actually really good and better than a lot of Japanese who have been here for a few years. Still, it's different than dealing with a native english speaker from the same culture as yourself.
Don't worry about her being single yet, that is something you should worry about if are considering a serious relationship. But you don't know her that well, so you call her up and ask her to meet you some place, dinner is always a nice choice, and get to know her better.
... i dont like this whole "friends zone" thing. like, i wouldnt care if i was going out with a girl who was my best friend. if the two of you are already good friends, that means you two get along really well and you would think that it would make a good relationship
she's probably wondering if you'd like to go out with her, and is thinking she'll just be your friend if not... at least, thats what i'd probably be thinking in such a situation.
Normaly if a girl has a boyfriend and gets driven home a couple of times, talks to you, asks for your phone number etc, she'll let you know she has a boyfriend so you don't get the wrong idea at some point quite early on.
I might call her... But we really haven't talked much in the last couple weeks. We see each other and say hi sometimes, and I've talked to her online on occasion. Maybe twice a week. But I'll try talking to her next time I see her- or next time she logs on. Not really sure what to talk about.
CALL HER! Call her and invite her to a date. Do it now, or don't do it at all.
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